12:01 am
licketySplitAUS
Clues are up
12:01 am
flosey
hi Bash and thanks Lickety
12:04 am
harpjane
phantom uruguay
12:04 am
harpjane
thanks lickety
12:06 am
torgone
Heyas kids ..
12:07 am
torgone
A little stinker today ..
12:12 am
flosey
lol, might even finish it before bedtime
12:19 am
rururocks
thanks torg
12:22 am
VolleymomDee
pe 7 pe 8
12:23 am
rururocks
ah thanks dee.. my missing p's
12:24 am
VolleymomDee
yqw
12:27 am
rururocks
finished
12:27 am
rururocks
thank you for the p's dee
12:27 am
VolleymomDee
wtg ru!
12:28 am
VolleymomDee
fireworks
12:28 am
rururocks
lol.. just ahead of you by a hair... good going dee
12:29 am
VolleymomDee
ty, ru! missed the se 5/14 and could not find it
12:30 am
flosey
fw and off to bed, goodnight all
12:31 am
VolleymomDee
sleep well, flosey. Also, off til the morrow!
12:31 am
rururocks
me three. nite
12:33 am
VolleymomDee
((ru)) *poof*
12:59 am
anike
OK. I am stuck on pe 7/8. Can anyone help?
1:02 am
anike
Never mind - found them
1:02 am
pink17
lol good can you share a clue?
1:04 am
grannyrose
pe7, what you write with + sounds like not a frog
1:05 am
pink17
its the great babbler rose ty
1:06 am
pink17
ty gr you rso kind super clue
1:06 am
grannyrose
xoxoxox pink
1:06 am
pink17
all somewhat ok gr?
1:07 am
grannyrose
yup. cortisone into left hip working well. still waiting for cortisone to kick in in the right hip. and you?
1:08 am
pink17
you have surely been poked and proded hope it helps the right hip too
1:09 am
grannyrose
*giggle* are well. what can you do? sure couldn't go on yelping with every step. lolll
1:10 am
pink17
lol you must be a wild dancer
1:10 am
grannyrose
you bet. wanna see me do the zorba??
1:11 am
pink17
lol I couldn't keep up with the famous grose
1:12 am
grannyrose
or salt bush city limits?? or the time warp ?? i used to do them all.
1:12 am
pink17
grose now those joint r paying but you had fUN
1:13 am
grannyrose
ymca?? and was it called the funky chicken?? yeah, i think that's what it was.
1:13 am
pink17
yes I remebr
1:13 am
grannyrose
*giggle* and platform shoes were IN!!!
1:14 am
pink17
then later came electric slide and Macarena lol
1:15 am
grannyrose
oh yeah!! those too. what fun!! todays kids don't know what they missed. mind you, my dad could never get over watching us in ballroom class, doing the evening two step to rock around the clock...
1:15 am
pink17
now I do not know what is in
1:16 am
pink17
hey you r a classy dancer too
1:16 am
grannyrose
it seems to me to be just arms and legs going every which way.
1:17 am
grannyrose
not any more, pink. * sigh * but the toes they keep on tapping.
1:17 am
pink17
hurting tremendously if you attempt im sure
1:18 am
grannyrose
lollll...more like getting out of breath after a few brackets...
1:19 am
pink17
lolol qxygen bar
1:19 am
grannyrose
hey, that's a great idea. who's shout?? yours or mine??
1:20 am
pink17
ill have a glass of coke and a side of oxygen
1:20 am
grannyrose
ROFLOL pink. do you want fries with that?
1:21 am
grannyrose
and don't forget the smelling salts....
1:21 am
pink17
yes please with a side of vitamins
1:22 am
grannyrose
and a walking frame on wheels...
1:22 am
pink17
lol eyes teared from laffing
1:22 am
grannyrose
oh my. the mind pictures are killing me...LOLOLOL
1:22 am
pink17
I need disco balls to hang from my walker
1:23 am
grannyrose
why should i be the only one!!??
1:23 am
pink17
a fashionista you
1:24 am
grannyrose
* laughing into an asthma attack* whose balls do you want hanging from your walker??
1:24 am
grannyrose
my ribs hurt....
1:24 am
pink17
omg the sparkly ones you goony!!!
1:25 am
grannyrose
<--------gasping
1:25 am
pink17
very funny person you are grose
1:25 am
grannyrose
if they came with bells they could be christmas balls....
1:26 am
pink17
lol sure I could do pumpkins in the fall
1:27 am
grannyrose
oh, dear. i haven't laughed like this since the last time.
1:27 am
pink17
tyty fro the fun try to sleeep
1:28 am
grannyrose
later, sleeping is for babies and old folk!!
1:28 am
pink17
lol me falls in the baby category for sure
1:29 am
grannyrose
pink, love. do you need any more assistance?
2:12 am
sprite
good morning all
2:12 am
sprite
good grief, a tiny babble :(
2:13 am
sprite
hah, but the K is dead, as they always should be :)
2:14 am
grannyrose
{{hugs}} and good morning dearest sprite!!
2:14 am
sprite
*hugs rose* Good evening my dear friend! Did you get the laundry folded away?
2:15 am
grannyrose
* eyes averted* not really. have been doing jigsaws.
2:16 am
sprite
hehehe good for you!
2:17 am
grannyrose
how are you faring??
2:18 am
sprite
slept ok, so not too bad. Might pop in the local store later today and get me some new crocheting yarn.
2:19 am
grannyrose
good for you.
2:20 am
sprite
looks like today is turning out to be a lovely autumn day. Finally no rain, lovely blue sky with white clouds, and even some sun.
2:21 am
grannyrose
sounds like my day.... ;-)
2:22 am
sprite
:D as usual we meet in the middle... briefly sharing the same weather.
2:22 am
grannyrose
along with a lot of other things....xox
2:23 am
sprite
hehehe *hugs*
2:23 am
grannyrose
*hugs* ya back and ya front.
2:23 am
sprite
*giggles* my sides, my sides, they want a hug too!
2:24 am
sprite
now that I still have sides to speak of...
2:24 am
grannyrose
okay, ya sides too...xoxoxoxox
2:25 am
sprite
good :) Oh I will certainly go get my yarn, just realised I must go to the post office anyway, for pug's letter.
2:26 am
sprite
and yes, I think pugs may not have a computer at home at all at the moment. There were issues with hers, and Roy's has gone kablooey on the floor.
2:27 am
grannyrose
okay, i will definitely get a letter off to her.
2:29 am
sprite
wonderful. She will love to get it.
2:30 am
sprite
frustrating little grid. I so want that -ing ending.
2:31 am
grannyrose
btw, cortisone in left hip is working. just waiting for it to work in the right hip.
2:31 am
sprite
woot, progress! So happy for you. You can use some relatively painfree days.
2:32 am
grannyrose
and i am so totally relaxed at the moment too. this is how it feels pre-FM.
2:33 am
sprite
let's make sure doc John understands this and devices a schedule that will keep you in this state.
2:33 am
grannyrose
honey, your turn and time for ease and comfort is coming.
2:33 am
sprite
oh absolutely. In another year, things will be very different for me too :)
2:35 am
cosdem
*poles head in chat*
2:36 am
sprite
hiya cos :) Nice pole there.
2:37 am
grannyrose
xoxox cos. lovely to see you mate
2:37 am
cosdem
lolsorry had to resist the urge to say something
2:38 am
cosdem
glad to see your pain is easing rose
2:38 am
sprite
*grins* hey it is good to see there is nothing wrong with the pole, right?
2:41 am
grannyrose
oh, oh sprite new word for dictionary. digent = prince charles
2:41 am
sprite
wow, brick wall at 30 left and not a single biggie yet.
2:41 am
sprite
lol I like it. In it goes.
2:42 am
grannyrose
*puts cushion on wall* don't hurt your head sweetie.
2:43 am
sprite
thanks rose :)
2:43 am
sprite
do you know about the babble dictionary in my profile, cos? Lots of good words there!
2:44 am
cosdem
checking it out now
2:44 am
grannyrose
well that's cos gone MIA.
2:45 am
cosdem
lmao i love it
2:45 am
cosdem
but wouldnt canapa be better for elderly men who play cards? :P
2:45 am
sprite
hehehe good one
2:46 am
sprite
added the def!
2:46 am
grannyrose
now you're thinking cos....
2:47 am
cosdem
lol nmice.. i like the garf one too
2:49 am
cosdem
ah so thats what inia means!
2:49 am
sprite
ah, you have reached the babble idiom :D
2:50 am
cosdem
Im skimming for the momenmt.. bookmarked it on my tablet though for a more in depth reading at work
2:51 am
cosdem
this grid sucks..
2:52 am
sprite
am struggling here too
2:52 am
cosdem
not even at nbt nbs yet
2:53 am
sprite
me neither. no biggies. Still open tiles too.
2:53 am
cosdem
any gn words?
2:53 am
sprite
hi ruby :) *hugs* How are things going?
2:53 am
grannyrose
{{hugs}} my darling ruby.
2:54 am
rubyfoo
I rought Burt home from the awful hospital, where they were doing nothing for him
2:54 am
rubyfoo
He is installed in a hospital bed in our bedroom and I'm organizing more help around him.
2:54 am
sprite
I thought he wasn't to come home again at all?
2:54 am
grannyrose
oh ruby. does that mean he isn't going into the special facility?
2:54 am
rubyfoo
He is better off here and I'll keep him here 'til the end as there are no places available anyway and at least I know he's not being neglected
2:55 am
sprite
oh ruby...
2:55 am
rubyfoo
They kept him restrained all the time and never once got him up and walking, so he was very weak, once here
2:55 am
grannyrose
nooooo ruby. for goodness sake honey. what about you??
2:56 am
rubyfoo
I just didn't have the heart to send him away. He still knows me and is more quiet now
2:56 am
sprite
ruby, sweetie, sorry to say this but I don't think it is a smart decision... you cannot take care of Burt and yourself at the moment.
2:56 am
rubyfoo
I am OK and think that going up and down the stairs a lot is probably good for me.
2:57 am
rubyfoo
It's just a question of organizing my sleep
2:57 am
sprite
that might be so, but not having any privacy is bad for you, and Burt being aggressive doesn't help either.
2:57 am
grannyrose
will he stay in bed overnight? does it have cot-sides? will he climb over them?
2:57 am
sprite
and also important: you need your energy for your own healing
2:57 am
rubyfoo
We'll see what the oncologist says in mid-October, if the meds are working or not.
2:58 am
sprite
I think they didn't keep him restrained for nothing in the hospital, to be honest
2:58 am
rubyfoo
He needs sedation at night and succeeded in getting out of the bed once but now I don't leave him alone and have much more help
2:59 am
rubyfoo
I'll try thie for a while but, for the moment, I'm no worse for it
3:00 am
grannyrose
okay, but please leave your options op4 for now.
3:00 am
rubyfoo
I have to pay bills now as there are a pile of them!
3:00 am
rubyfoo
XX to both of you
3:00 am
grannyrose
xxxx to you sweetie
3:00 am
sprite
ruby, your frustration 'screamed' from the chat for the last few months, and Burt will only get worse from here on... I am really worried about this decision.
3:01 am
sprite
*hugs ruby*
3:01 am
rubyfoo
you sound like Joh, sprite, but this is actually easier for me than schlepping back and forth to the hospital
3:02 am
grannyrose
sprite, ruby must do what she thinks is right for them both.
3:02 am
sprite
I have to speak my mind, ruby...
3:03 am
grannyrose
i am so disappointed that the docs couldn't get Burt into the care facility in time. ruby, is his name on the waiting list for somewhere?
3:08 am
TraderKate
Hello 4 AM!
3:08 am
sprite
hiya Kate :) That is very early
3:08 am
grannyrose
hello kate sweetie.
3:09 am
sprite
finally nbs nbt with 9 left, lol
3:09 am
grannyrose
how are the shingles, honey? settled any at all?
3:09 am
grannyrose
yay sprite. good job
3:09 am
mattygroves
I am still missing the 8, otherwise I'm nbt. 23 left (just gone to the list)
3:10 am
TraderKate
hi granny and sprite....ruby too if she's still here ...
3:10 am
sprite
the 8 is plural of a 7
3:10 am
TraderKate
hi matty :)
3:10 am
sprite
and hiya matty :)
3:10 am
mattygroves
I'll find it eventually - hello all!
3:10 am
grannyrose
cooee matty
3:10 am
sprite
how are you, matty and kate?
3:11 am
mattygroves
I'm ok - a tad delicate but that's my own fault ;)
3:11 am
sprite
been living wild and dangerously, matty?
3:12 am
TraderKate
okay... as per usual, went to bed hours ago, now wide awake :(
3:12 am
sprite
so frustrating, kate :( But our gain!
3:12 am
mattygroves
Yarp, a bit - I went to a marketing networking event last night with a friend (and ex colleague) and had a few pints ;)
3:13 am
TraderKate
so matty is a bit looped ;)
3:13 am
sprite
ah good! I hope you had a grand time
3:13 am
mattygroves
So I'm not out of bed yet (at 9.13)
3:13 am
grannyrose
matty, nothing wrong with a few pints dear... loll
3:14 am
sprite
two more words, two more words...
3:14 am
TraderKate
enjoy your lie-in matty!
3:14 am
grannyrose
goooo sprite
3:14 am
mattygroves
And tonight we're out as well with a group of friends for a local band's album launch.
3:15 am
sprite
one is a 7, lol.
3:15 am
mattygroves
http://www.thewessexpistols.com/
3:15 am
TraderKate
go sprite go!
3:15 am
sprite
ah, very important then to lie in, matty, and drink plenty of water!
3:15 am
grannyrose
past tense, sprite
3:16 am
TraderKate
love the play on words for the band's title kate :)
3:16 am
sprite
fun band name!
3:16 am
mattygroves
Oh yeah - and they're other incarnations (they have different names depending on how many members are there) are the Sex Pirates and the Eel Pie Pirates
3:17 am
TraderKate
yet, you did not share them with us on talk like a pirate day!
3:18 am
mattygroves
Oh, silly me!!
3:18 am
sprite
arrrrr matey! I mean matty!
3:18 am
mattygroves
:D :D
3:18 am
sprite
I give. Rose, please a clue for the de7?
3:19 am
grannyrose
past tense of de5/16
3:19 am
sprite
lol yeah. That much I guessed. Ok, a clue for the de5/16 then?
3:20 am
mattygroves
I wouldn't even de5 to answer that ;)
3:20 am
sprite
ah, thanks matty!
3:20 am
grannyrose
okay de5/16, to stoop or condescend
3:20 am
sprite
thanks rose :)
3:20 am
grannyrose
WTG SPRITE!!! rah, rah, rah
3:21 am
mattygroves
Congrats! I'm currently hunting for the NE5 and working my way through (13 left) :)
3:21 am
sprite
off to the post office and yarn. *hugs* dear girls. Sleep well/have a lovely day.
3:21 am
TraderKate
congratulations sprite!
and ty for the de 5,7 matty and granny :)
3:22 am
grannyrose
xoxox my dearest friend. enjoy your beautiful day.{{hugs}}
3:22 am
grannyrose
matty, ne5 uses the sometimes vowel
3:22 am
mattygroves
I am a flaming idiot
3:23 am
mattygroves
You should have seen the crazy combinations I tried
3:23 am
grannyrose
but a lovable flaming idiot. *smooch*
3:23 am
mattygroves
Awwww! That's the nicest thing anyone's said to me all morning :)
3:23 am
grannyrose
*giggle*
3:24 am
TraderKate
<----passes fire extinguisher
3:24 am
mattygroves
Ta - I needed that - I was getting rather toasty
3:24 am
grannyrose
*gurgles into drink*
3:24 am
grannyrose
dinner ready. ttfn
3:25 am
mattygroves
Enjoy your dinner, Rose
3:25 am
TraderKate
bye granny, nice to see you :)
3:25 am
mattygroves
Aaah - onto the PEs, where, I note, lurks the 8. *dives in, thus putting out, one hopes, the flaming idiot*
3:26 am
TraderKate
good luck mayyt!
3:27 am
mattygroves
And the PE7 and 8 duly conquered. Onwards to S!
3:29 am
mattygroves
Aaaaand....fireworks. Guess that means I should shower and dress now...
3:31 am
TraderKate
congratulations matty!
5:29 am
bichon
I see we're all up early today
5:31 am
TraderKate
hi buichon, just about to go back to bed here...
5:31 am
bichon
I slept til 5 today
5:34 am
bichon
I didn't understand the de 6, clue
5:40 am
TraderKate
niters bichon, see you later today :)
5:47 am
sukee
Good morning.
6:13 am
crosshair
Good morning everybody :)
6:14 am
bichon
hi crossy, sukee
6:23 am
bichon
en 5/14, pls
6:25 am
Uneaixoise
en5/14 ceased
6:26 am
Uneaixoise
yw :-)
6:27 am
Uneaixoise
FW . . . Hello all and HAGD! :-)
6:56 am
grannyrose
crossy?? you still here mate??
7:05 am
grannyrose
okay. obviously the lure of the cuppa tea is strong. cooee to anyone here!! LOL
7:43 am
Scrabbler
Hi kids.
7:49 am
phaeton
tough little grid!
7:53 am
Scrabbler
Yes, I took a break after 25.
7:56 am
Marc Freeman
Couldn't figure out the clue for de5? Could someone re-clue it please?
7:57 am
grannyrose
is it okay for me to say cooee? or is everybody gonna scuttle for the corners??
7:57 am
Scrabbler
Cooee has been in past grids.
7:57 am
grannyrose
marc, de5. de + gerund finish mixed up
7:58 am
grannyrose
xoxox scrabs.
7:58 am
Scrabbler
TY, Rose.
7:59 am
Marc Freeman
thanks got it
7:59 am
grannyrose
yay marc.
8:01 am
grannyrose
*giggle* guessed the correct word you were looking for. there are 4 x de5's.
8:04 am
Marc Freeman
new clue for en5, please?
8:05 am
grannyrose
past tense of finish. en + sounds like not going
8:05 am
dan2bit
morning all! top row done
8:06 am
Marc Freeman
thanks got it
8:06 am
phaeton
don't see the gerund finish for the de5 clued
8:07 am
grannyrose
yay you dan!!
8:07 am
dan2bit
I like to celebrate my smal accomplisments
8:07 am
grannyrose
phaeton, de5. de + vowel + **at, annoying insect
8:08 am
grannyrose
dan, not gonna touch that one... lolll
8:08 am
phaeton
ahh...that was the mixed up part...ty granny
8:08 am
grannyrose
yay phaeton.
8:17 am
Marc Freeman
pe7, please?
8:18 am
grannyrose
pe7. what you write with + sounds like not frog
8:20 am
mkg
i love small grids. maybe i can finish it.
8:21 am
mkg
ty granny. got that one.
8:21 am
grannyrose
whoot, mkg. you rock
8:38 am
hurshy
man, i really thought podge would work
8:40 am
grannyrose
ditto hurshy
8:42 am
wvteach
good morning all
8:43 am
wvteach
help with bottom row single E pls
8:44 am
wvteach
thnx hurshy
8:44 am
hurshy
ugh gotta shower, hey if people have 7s and 8 and wanna leave clues that i can see when i'm clean...
8:44 am
grannyrose
and the affluence of incahol has caught up with me....good night all. i hope you all have a great da\y/night... lolll
8:45 am
wvteach
halfway - NBT and NBS - out for the morning - BBL this afternoon
8:45 am
grannyrose
de7. past tense of de5/16. to stoop to, condescend
8:46 am
grannyrose
pe7/8. what you write with + sounds like not frog. then plural for the pe8
8:47 am
ChampFit
great clue...thx!
8:47 am
grannyrose
xoxox champ
9:11 am
hego
hello clean Hurshy.
9:12 am
hurshy
now must go to work! 5 s, 2 P, and 1 E for later
9:12 am
grannyrose
np's hurshy. and how are you dear?
9:12 am
grannyrose
g'day hego
9:12 am
hego
ty for the clue granny. good one!
9:14 am
grannyrose
hego, xoxox
9:14 am
hego
back at you!
9:16 am
grannyrose
hego, your profile tells me you are my type of gal...lololol
9:17 am
hego
I think we got our knees done the same year. lol
9:18 am
grannyrose
lolll. probably.
9:22 am
grannyrose
hego, would love to hear from you. my email addy is in my profile.
9:26 am
hego
must go. bye granny
9:26 am
grannyrose
okay. have yours . will email you ASAP. xoxox like tomorrow...when i am grounded on my own territory.
9:40 am
Trifioso
hello dear friends
9:49 am
72 Temple Owl
hi trif
10:25 am
car.eeyore
Hello Luv!
10:27 am
car.eeyore
Hello everyone! Didn't realize how much time had passed on the chog!
10:52 am
gemini_J13
not much chatting
10:58 am
rururocks
usually not a lot of chatting with a tiny grid. it's kind of normal
11:15 am
bichon
ge 5/14, second one pls
11:20 am
therealblah
plural of ge4/6
11:39 am
bichon
pe 6/24, pls
11:51 am
TraderKate
pe 6/24 pt of pe 5/12
pe + The Sun Als R***s or...
pe + a m***r hoards his money
11:51 am
bichon
ty Kate, that does it for me. HAGD all
11:55 am
TraderKate
congratulations bichon!
12:00 pm
TraderKate
and that's fire works for me too...
no clues required, I guess?
12:00 pm
rururocks
nope.. no clues
12:42 pm
TraderKate
hi ruru ;)
1:31 pm
crosshair
Yaaa for Origami!!!
1:37 pm
TraderKate
congratulations origami!
1:37 pm
TraderKate
Hi crossy :)
1:40 pm
origami
Any clues before I go?
1:42 pm
Trifioso
hello friends
1:56 pm
Soodle
Hi Trif. Hope your still here?
2:00 pm
crosshair
Howdy, Kate, Trif, Soodles:)
2:01 pm
Trifioso
yes, I am
2:02 pm
TraderKate
Hi trif and soodles :)
2:03 pm
Trifioso
everyone doing well?
2:03 pm
TraderKate
yes, and how are you doing trif?
2:03 pm
Trifioso
honest answer?
2:04 pm
TraderKate
if you care to share, yes...
2:04 pm
Trifioso
having a tough time. wicked bad depression spiral at the minute, but fighting....
2:05 pm
Trifioso
its passes. I am trying to fight it
2:05 pm
TraderKate
I know you don't like to say too much in chat...i'm not sure we are fb friends... if we are mwssage me? (i don't think i know your real name..
2:05 pm
Trifioso
its okay.
2:05 pm
TraderKate
Oh trif.. so sorrry to hear... is this what was going on last time we chatted?
2:06 pm
Trifioso
maybe just send some positive thoughts my way....
2:06 pm
TraderKate
you have some meds, right?
2:06 pm
Trifioso
yes, TK. it's been a few very bad weeks
2:06 pm
Trifioso
a lot of quite trying things happened all at once, and I lost my footing. I am determined to get it back though
2:07 pm
TraderKate
I completely understand... had a very hard time of it myself recently.. jsut hold on to the thought that it WILL pass. one hting at a time trif...
2:07 pm
Trifioso
thank you. I know you understand. ((((hug)))))
2:08 pm
TraderKate
don't try to bite off too much.. it can make it all seem overwhelming... if you can try to tackle just one thing... just one...
2:09 pm
TraderKate
it's horrible when you get an avalanche of crap all at opnce - especially if you're feeling a bit vulnerable at the time.
2:09 pm
Trifioso
that's all I can do right now. I have been focusing on just getting to work, and getting through the day. It's really hard because I have to be "super fun miss c" all day, which wears me out.....I am not getting much done at home. And it shows.
2:09 pm
TraderKate
do you have the luxury of a ittle time so you are not so pressed?
2:09 pm
Trifioso
im so sad, all the time. it's exhausting
2:10 pm
Trifioso
I am not good at time management at the best of times, tk...but Im trying
2:10 pm
TraderKate
home be damned... there are more important things than a tidy house.. can you press some family or friends into service for a bit of help?
2:10 pm
TraderKate
why must you be miss congeniality at work?
2:10 pm
Trifioso
a lot of this is just giving myself permission to ride this out, and be patient with myself. Yelling at myself to just snap out of it doesn't work
2:11 pm
Trifioso
I work at a school, TK, and it's appropriate for me to be engaged and involved with the students. I wish I had one of those jobs where I could hide in filing or computer tasks on off days and not talk to anyone, but I don't
2:11 pm
TraderKate
of course it soesn't.. you are right.. ride it out... give yourself permission to be less than stellar for a while... your star will continue tuo shine...
2:12 pm
Trifioso
my star is out.
2:12 pm
Trifioso
and for now, that's going to have to be okay.
2:13 pm
TraderKate
yes...one fooot in front of the other... I guess a bit of time off is out of the question?
have you revisited your meds with doc lately?
2:13 pm
Trifioso
no, and yes
2:13 pm
Trifioso
I get a small break at Thanksgiving, and then Christmas....some days the distraction is good. Today was not one of those days
2:14 pm
TraderKate
okay... then you just have to give mother nature and modern medicine a chance to do their thing...
2:14 pm
Trifioso
yes. and the grief process itself. I am learning that I cannot rush it, unfortunately. I just have to feel it.
2:15 pm
TraderKate
yes, there's no short cut... in the end feeling/living it is the short cut; rather than trying to pretend it's not happening.
2:15 pm
TraderKate
any interest in joining a small chat group in your area?
2:17 pm
Trifioso
whats new with you?
2:17 pm
Trifioso
tell me something good!
2:17 pm
TraderKate
In the mean time... do something for yourself every day.. as small as a bubble bath in peace.. or buy yourself something pretty if it's in the budget...walk and smell the roses -even if you don't feel like it when you go out the door, you will probably be better for it when you return.
2:17 pm
Trifioso
thank you TK. I appreciate your caring words very much.
2:19 pm
TraderKate
Trif, I wish I had some really great news to report... I am getting by as best I can.. I have started practising "gratitude"... not writing a journal or anything, just trying to think of something every day before I go to bed that I am thankful for.. science says it helps... there is quite a body of work out now.. Ifind it helps...
2:21 pm
TraderKate
I do care trif... and I know many Babblers care too... bring us your burdens, it will help lighten them jsut by sharing what you're comfortable with.. and I'm sure Crossy sends you another big bear hug too...
2:21 pm
TraderKate
{{{((( TRIFIOSO )))}}}
2:24 pm
Trifioso
I should start a gratitude journal...that might help!
2:24 pm
TraderKate
As for something good....don't get your hopes up, but I have applied for a job that I would very much like to have, so I am trying to keep a positive attitude...fingers, toes, eyes all crossed.. ;)
2:24 pm
Trifioso
oh great! I hope you get it!!!
2:25 pm
Soodle
Oh, I'm sorry..... I was on the phone. ((((Kate & Trif)))))
2:26 pm
Soodle
Trif - I saw on FB you suffered the loss of a loved one. My sincere condolences. I hope you are OK
2:26 pm
TraderKate
sure trif! ..just don't make it one more thing on your "todo" list, or it will defeat the purpose...
you could start by writing a bit in point form.. and maybe one little thing every night... but even if you only do it in your head, it is a help... thinking of one little good thing before bed has led to a brighter morning, I have found.. do what you want and what you can - don't make it a burden. I can send you some stuff if you want...
2:26 pm
jewwel
to the lady going having issues - keep on keeping
2:26 pm
TraderKate
(are we fb friends?)
2:27 pm
Soodle
Trif - i saw on FB you suffered the loss of a loved one. My sincere condolences. I hope your OK
2:28 pm
Soodle
Aargh. Double post apologies.
2:28 pm
Bugsaw
even lurkers like me care and wrap you in healing light and love. It will pass
2:29 pm
TraderKate
HI bugs, nice to see you come out of lurkdom :)
2:30 pm
Bugsaw
just to deliver hugs and healing thoughts. I too have been there and it will pass.
2:30 pm
Soodle
Hey Bugs. And, Kate - that is really good advice, about the daily gratitude.
2:30 pm
Trifioso
hi soodle, and thanks
2:30 pm
Trifioso
and thanks too bugs
2:31 pm
Soodle
Life can really be shite sometimes.
2:31 pm
TraderKate
I did a one day seminar on it and found it very helpful.. and I'm not big on the fads that come and go or "new-ager" stuff... this I found had a simplicity to it with some sound science behind it...so far so good
2:32 pm
TraderKate
message me if you want trif.
2:32 pm
TraderKate
.. I will send you some info if you like
2:33 pm
Trifioso
reader's digest version - Valentine and I split on the sunday, My best friend died that Friday. my head has been spinning ever since.
2:34 pm
Trifioso
it all just hit me like a tidal wave, and I haven't been able to bounce back like I should have. I'm GUTTED
2:34 pm
TraderKate
Oh Trif! No wonder you are reeling...double huge traumas!
2:35 pm
Soodle
No no no!!!! That is just dreadful. Trif - I am so very sorry. Consider yourself hugged within an inch of your life.
2:36 pm
TraderKate
There is no specific way to bounce back.. and there is no short cut to grief,,, whether death of a loved one or death of a long relationship, they are equally painful and you jsut muddle through as best yo can... use that support network of friends.. they are jsut waiting to be asked, because they don't know what to do/say.....
2:36 pm
Trifioso
I had just spoken to my beloved friend Steven Friday morning. He was coming off the late shift as I was heading into early work. He planned to meet a friend for coffee, then take a nap. He never woke up.
2:36 pm
TraderKate
< group trif squish >
2:36 pm
Trifioso
thanks all. sorry to bum out the chog
2:37 pm
TraderKate
the chog is for sharing joy and pain trif. no apology necessary.
2:37 pm
Soodle
Thanks for sharing Trif. You poor girl.
2:38 pm
TraderKate
no wonder you're so gutted.. such an unexpected death...
I'm very glad you're talking about it... in the end it does help
2:40 pm
Trifioso
steven would not want me to be so rudderless....he would want me to be stronger
2:40 pm
Soodle
Trif - whenever I'm going through trauma, I soldier on. Right up until somebody sympathises with me - then I crumple. If your crumpled right now - heres another hug. (((())))
2:42 pm
TraderKate
It is perfectly fine not to be strong...that is the beginning of the healing. It is an unrealistic expectation society puts on us...what soodles said.. tea and sympathy is in order.
2:44 pm
Trifioso
I have to go cheer on the field hockey team now. I am going to make "I have amazing friends on babble" the first entry in my gratitude journal
2:44 pm
TraderKate
as for Steven, I'm sure he would love to know that he meant so much to you that you are mourning his loss acutely...it is quite a tribute to a wonderful friendship.
2:44 pm
Trifioso
((((chog))))
2:44 pm
TraderKate
GO TRIF GO!!!!
2:45 pm
Soodle
Well said Kate. Trif - you are a strong woman. We love you.
2:45 pm
TraderKate
take care trif.. we will be thinking of you...don't be afraid to speak up here ANYTIME dya or night... there's always soemone out here in cyberland ...
2:46 pm
Bugsaw
rudderless is a good way to put it but remember, you are in a boat and it is not sinking. you are just floating through life right now. it is what happens for a while and is perfectly normal. Remember, you are NOT SINKING. your rowboat is floating on a sea of love and hugs.
2:47 pm
TraderKate
Oh {{{(((BUGS)))}}}
what a wonderful thought!
2:48 pm
Bugsaw
blessing to you too Kate and Soodle. We have all been there
2:50 pm
TraderKate
I am going to remember that Bugs... very important sentiment and there were itmes inmy life where it would have come in handy...
2:51 pm
Dorens
I like that Bugs. And I add my sympathies to Trif, even though it seems she has gone.
2:51 pm
Soodle
The last number of posts in the chog has restored my faith in Babble & Babblers. The snarkiness & unpleasentness that sometimes shows it's ugly face on Babble has been overruled .
2:58 pm
TraderKate
There is always time to circle the wagons and tend to our own.... we just need to know that someone is in need. I am so very grateful tobe part of thisw wonderful group...
2:59 pm
TraderKate
Unfortunately, I must dash... see you all later this evening :)
3:08 pm
Soodle
Laters, (((Kate)))
3:12 pm
periwinkle
Trif I am so sorry for what you are going thru.
3:12 pm
periwinkle
((((Trif))))
3:12 pm
periwinkle
hi all
3:13 pm
Soodle
Hey Peri :-)
3:14 pm
periwinkle
no toenail polish. done with that for now. fall is here :(
3:15 pm
periwinkle
I do not know what I would without my friends here and my friends in real life.
3:15 pm
westford
I have some happy news to share. I became a great grandmother at 9:59 this morning. I'm so sorry about Trif's news
3:15 pm
periwinkle
Yay for you westford. How are mom and baby doing?
3:15 pm
periwinkle
did Trif say she and Valentine have broken up?
3:16 pm
Soodle
Westford!!! How wonderful! Many congratulations. Boy or girl?
3:16 pm
Soodle
Yes, Peri. Sadly
3:16 pm
Soodle
Yes, Peri. Sadly
3:16 pm
westford
Mom and Dad and baby girl are all doing very well. My Erin, the grandmother is still reeling.
3:17 pm
periwinkle
very sad for Trif. two big blows so close together.
3:18 pm
westford
my best friend died suddenly 11 years ago and I think about her everyday. This new baby is something I would have loved to share with her..I think she knows though
3:19 pm
Soodle
what an incredible honour to be a great grandma!! Well done Westford. (I'm still waiting to be mafe a Grandma!).
3:19 pm
Soodle
...Made...
3:19 pm
westford
Trif and I share the same birthday and I've been wanting to wish her a happy mutual birthday but she hasn't been on...now I know why
3:19 pm
rururocks
made or mafia?
3:20 pm
Soodle
Take your pick Ru! Lol
3:20 pm
westford
thanks soodle your turn will come
3:21 pm
rururocks
I just want to be a rowboat in a sea of love and hugs
:D
3:25 pm
Soodle
Its funny, West. When my daughters were in their teens - news of a pregnancy would have been a disaster. Now that they are (semi) self sufficient ... I can't wait for news of offspring!
3:28 pm
westford
The baby's mother is 26 and her husband is 29. They are both level headed and will be excellent parents. The pregnancy was planned and this baby was very welcome.
3:30 pm
Soodle
Well, long life & good health to baby & parents!!! Bless them.
3:30 pm
rururocks
that seems young to me.. but what do I know
3:30 pm
westford
Thanks. I'll pass on your good wishes
3:31 pm
Dorens
the older we get, ru, the younger they seem.
3:31 pm
rururocks
I hear that
3:31 pm
Soodle
Lol Dorens!! Well said.
3:31 pm
westford
isn't that the truth..some mature faster than others though
3:32 pm
rururocks
<--slow maturer...
3:32 pm
westford
but lots of fun to be with...
3:33 pm
rururocks
I love it at the grocery store when they ask me if they can help me out with the groceries...I tell them maybe in ten years
3:33 pm
Soodle
<----- averting eyes in case Ruru expands on his slow maturing 'thing'
3:34 pm
Dorens
yeah, and when they call me "ma'am" . yikes
3:35 pm
rururocks
no soodle.. that thing matures quickly..
3:36 pm
rururocks
it's just the rest of me that's slow :D
3:36 pm
westford
a man who cooks is a dream come true
3:37 pm
westford
hello welki
3:38 pm
rururocks
still haven't cooked for Doren yet.. but I will someday
3:38 pm
welki
congrats, westford - a new baby to spoil :)
3:38 pm
Dorens
(I'm here intermittently now- Answering phones at the Jazz radio station)
3:39 pm
Dorens
no, ru, you haven't... but you've given me recipes.
congrats westford.. great news
3:39 pm
westford
thanks, she's 2 1/2 hours away but we'll try to see her as much as possible
3:39 pm
westford
thank you too Dorens it's so exciting
3:40 pm
rururocks
gosh in ten years you could be a great-great grandma
3:40 pm
westford
5 granddaughters and now a great granddaughter
3:41 pm
westford
If she has a child at 10 I'll disown her lol
3:41 pm
Dorens
hey westford, ,my grandkids are nearly 4 hours away but I'm there once a month.
3:42 pm
Dorens
Ru, when are you coming to NY????
3:42 pm
rururocks
I'm not sure.. sometime in October I think
3:45 pm
westford
Time to get going..her name is Olive Mae and she weighed in at 8 lbs 15 oz and is 22 inches long. Practically full grown. I can't wait to hold her.
3:46 pm
westford
hi and bye cos..
3:51 pm
westford
bye all thanks for letting me share my good news
3:51 pm
Dorens
bye west, and mazel tov on Olive.
3:53 pm
Soodle
Bless Olive Mae. Long life & happiness to her. :-)
3:57 pm
cosdem
help with the pe7 please?
3:58 pm
MollyL
pe7...start with a devil sign prefix and end with an old word for poem
3:59 pm
MollyL
Old word for poem like ....on a Grecian urn
3:59 pm
cosdem
ahh thanks
4:00 pm
cosdem
this is the first two day weekend for me since went back to work. decided not to do over time this week
4:01 pm
rururocks
hope she doesn't date a sailor .. that Olive .. when she grows up.. yuck yuck yuck
4:06 pm
MollyL
Cos you are too driven. Life is short. Enjoy it.
4:07 pm
cosdem
its nice. im bored for once.
4:10 pm
Soodle
Bored can be good, Cos! I met some tourists today in my hometown, from Colorado. They were horrified that I knew canabis had been legalised there.
4:12 pm
cosdem
I would be proud not horrified lol
4:13 pm
cosdem
where in Colorado do you know?
4:17 pm
MollyL
Cos are there people in Colorado who are horrified about that? I thought it was kind of a party on thing there.
4:17 pm
cosdem
recreational shops are banned in el paso county
4:18 pm
cosdem
the more conservative areas banned it while the liberal and urban areas allow it
4:19 pm
cosdem
there are loopholes though. el paso allows marijuana clubs where you can "reimburse your entry"
4:21 pm
MollyL
Marijuana clubs. I love it. Do they all answer the door saying "Dave's not here man"?
4:23 pm
rururocks
they have newsletters for those marijuana clubs in texas
4:23 pm
cosdem
lol nah but you have to ring a bell to get in
4:23 pm
cosdem
a friend told me, of course...
4:23 pm
rururocks
the one I know from El Paso is called "Pot Shots"
4:24 pm
cosdem
we have studio 64, the lazy lion and the speakseasy
4:26 pm
rururocks
I'd shop at the Lazy Lion..cool name
4:27 pm
MollyL
Here in Maryland, the home of the stuffy and over paid Democrats, we have "cigar clubs"
4:27 pm
rururocks
bet they don't allow Minnesota dentists in there
4:28 pm
rururocks
yeah.. they call cigars Boehners in the democrat clubs
4:30 pm
rururocks
Waiter to Senator Kerry.. "What would you like to order Senator".. Senator Kerry " how bout a scotch and pull me a Boehner"
4:31 pm
rururocks
*opens lead balloon joke shute*
4:35 pm
MollyL
It's a tough room, Ru. Not much sense of humor here. Or humour.
4:51 pm
Marc Freeman
Could I please get a different clue for pe7, please?
4:55 pm
MollyL
Glad to read about Westford's good news.
Sorry to read about Trif's unhappy news.
Equally sorry that a comment about whose good wishes to people here are welcome and whose are not.
I think when it comes down to applauding good news or offering good wishes when there is bad news, we can leave the "who is liked and who is not liked" stuff to the side.
4:56 pm
nrkii
starts like a 5-pointed star, ends like a poem
4:56 pm
Marc Freeman
thanks got them both
4:58 pm
72 Temple Owl
hi all
5:13 pm
72 Temple Owl
nrk?
5:50 pm
cosdem
I have returned.
5:58 pm
MollyL
Thank God. I was about ready to send out the hounds.
5:59 pm
MollyL
Oh, and you're done!!! Lots of !!! and ♥♥♥ for you.
6:00 pm
MollyL
Note: The previous post was a joke between Cos and I and not meant to be critical or "snarky"
6:00 pm
cosdem
I apologize. I will try my very darnedest to inform you of my whereabouts from now on.
6:00 pm
MollyL
Good. People drool at their computers awaiting your return.
6:02 pm
cosdem
Fangs bared as well?
6:04 pm
cosdem
Have you seen any of the new shows?
6:08 pm
MollyL
Haven't watched any of the new shows. I'm trying to plow through the ones I watch, which are all now on Thursday night, so I watch them via streaming over the weekend.
6:08 pm
MollyL
Which new shows look good to you?
6:09 pm
cosdem
Only streamed two at work. Scream Queens and The Muppets. Liked both but enjoyed SQ more.
6:10 pm
cosdem
Am watching Gotham season 1 and Sleepyu Hollow season 1 on dcv
6:10 pm
MollyL
I've watched Sleepy Hollow since it started. I'm curious as to where it will go this season.
6:11 pm
cosdem
I am liking season two so far I mean.. not season one
6:12 pm
MollyL
I have a wild crush on Tom Mison so I will probably stick with that until it goes off the air.
6:17 pm
cosdem
I like the historical fiction part.. Washington Franklin Jefferson etc
6:25 pm
MollyL
Timothy Busfield as Benjamin Franklin was an inspired casting choice
6:52 pm
penquis
hello....
7:30 pm
JillF
clues for the de5 and de7...do they go together? thanks
7:31 pm
penquis
rhymes with .... the re*** of Elizabeth II will end only when she dies....
7:32 pm
JillF
ahhh thank you so much good clue
8:36 pm
dan2bit
evening all!
8:38 pm
penquis
small grid = quiet chat room...
8:40 pm
dan2bit
could I have stats for the lone E and the lone G?
8:40 pm
rururocks
ei4 (quack)
8:41 pm
rururocks
hi penquis
8:41 pm
dan2bit
yeah too many D, E , G paths
8:42 pm
rururocks
*wait for the Y dan *
8:47 pm
dan2bit
9 left, all D's E's & G's
8:49 pm
dan2bit
de5/18 was my last, it did end with the Y - thanks ruru, lickety & all cluers
8:50 pm
penquis
congrats!
8:54 pm
Babs1
wanna clue that de 5/18?
8:55 pm
PastorJ
yes in-de5/18-do!
8:56 pm
PastorJ
or, title with a sometimes vowel on the end
8:56 pm
Babs1
oh jeez! lol
9:04 pm
torgone
Phantom: potrzebie ..
9:08 pm
dan2bit
your phantoms are haunting torg :-)
9:12 pm
torgone
What, me worry?
9:47 pm
meliae
Stats for other Y that is not a round tent.
9:49 pm
Minveryork
yu 4/9
11:45 pm
cosdem
Howdy is it flip yet