12:06 am
torgone
Bl6! Another small grid ..
12:11 am
m9f9l
Well if I figure out the singletons in the lower left corner, I'll have nbs, nbt and 1/2 way
12:13 am
pugmama763
oops typo was te & I see it was called sorry
12:17 am
licketySplitAUS
Clues are up
12:17 am
flosey
thanks Lickety
12:22 am
chj
If undeniable is a word, why not undeny?
12:30 am
rururocks
finished
1:07 am
spellit
Shakespeare would be sad to see that nonny wasn't allowed!
1:09 am
spellit
Sorry wrong box
2:00 am
sprite
good morning all
2:02 am
grannyrose
{{hugs}} and good morning dearest sprite
2:03 am
grannyrose
how have you been? did the magnesium help the other day?
2:04 am
sprite
*hugs rose* Hello my dearest friend. Yeah, the magnesium did make a difference. Still does, tbh. Somehow my body isn't cooperating muchly atm.
2:05 am
flosey
fw and off to bed, goodnight all
2:05 am
sprite
but: good news from the internist. Everything is looking good, except the liver values, which he thinks is a result from my meds, so cannot be helped right now, and the vitamin D which was way way way too low again.
2:05 am
sprite
wtg flosey, and sleep well, dear lady
2:06 am
grannyrose
WTG FLOSEY!!!! sweet dreams dear flosey
2:07 am
grannyrose
ugh on the liver results honey. are you on vit D supplements?
2:08 am
sprite
yes, daily, lol. But I also have ampoules from a belgian doctor friend. the internist told me to start taking those again, once a month, and keep up with the dailies too.
2:09 am
sprite
otherwise a clean bill of health! Good, isn;t it? Must report back in a year.
2:10 am
sprite
oh and I asked about the rash/eczema. It isn't something they see a lot of there. But he said that doesn't mean it isn't related to the weight loss. He said losing so much weight is stress for the body, and stress can be expressed in many ways.
2:14 am
sprite
looks like I lost our rose!
2:14 am
grannyrose
ahhhh, so all is under control then except for your crazy head...
2:14 am
sprite
all except my crazy head and the vit. D, yes.
2:14 am
grannyrose
loll you wish xoxox
2:15 am
sprite
no I don't, lol. Stay. Here. Don't ever leave me!
2:15 am
grannyrose
btw, i have finished sorting, folding and ironing the clean washing. and all put away too.
2:16 am
sprite
good job! How have you been for the rest?
2:16 am
grannyrose
3 weeks worth.. *sigh*. doing so well this time. don has noticed the difference too.
2:17 am
sprite
awesome! Now be sure to keep dem ketamine levels up, ya hear? Better a week too early than a day too late.
2:19 am
grannyrose
i hear you. also the temperature sings are less. still feel a little over warm, but mostly feeling the cold. it's so nice ;-)
2:20 am
grannyrose
ugh... swings
2:20 am
sprite
that is so nice, rose. I am so happy for you.
2:21 am
grannyrose
one day honey, when all the rest has settled for you, hopefully you will find a doctor who can help you the same way as my dr. john
2:21 am
sprite
yeah dem temperature sings. Cannot be helped by a band aid. Ketamine is such a good alt-ernative
2:21 am
sprite
from your mouth to the Big Guy's ear, honey.
2:22 am
grannyrose
* rolls eyes* BAND aid??? groaning....
2:22 am
sprite
did you like my ruru impersonation? :D
2:23 am
grannyrose
no-one does it like ruru... lolll. i like you just the way you are.. xoxox
2:24 am
sprite
*grins* Thanks.... I think
2:24 am
grannyrose
say, that would make a great song...
2:24 am
sprite
hm yeah. if I may propose a small change... I'd say 'love you just the way you are'
2:25 am
sprite
maybe billy joel can sing it!
2:25 am
grannyrose
oh yeah... okay, then... i love you just the way you are.
2:25 am
sprite
*giggles* And vice versa, my dear, and vice versa.
2:28 am
grannyrose
you don't even ne4 a cherry on top...*giggle* just a little whipped cream...
2:29 am
sprite
<--- hates whipped cream. So no, forget the cream. Take me plain as plain.
2:29 am
grannyrose
and maybe some grated chocolate... hmmm
2:29 am
sprite
oh, the internist said to take no more than one fruit a day :( Back to low on carbs for me.
2:29 am
grannyrose
you are never gonna be plain, honey
2:30 am
sprite
does that mean I should stop trying?
2:30 am
grannyrose
lollll you are always going to be trying.... very trying...
2:32 am
grannyrose
omg a 34 kilogram pearl... has been kept under a phillipino fisherman's bed since he found it
2:33 am
sprite
good grief. The man's nights must have been an ordeal
2:34 am
grannyrose
looks like it has come from a giant clam. last one sold for US$42 million dollars
2:35 am
grannyrose
imagine it as a pendant...talk about millstone around your neck.
2:35 am
sprite
looked it up, amazing
2:37 am
grannyrose
what could you do with it? you couldn't break it up, that would destroy the uniqueness of it.
2:37 am
sprite
I'd sell it to the highest bidder
2:38 am
grannyrose
*sigh* well i will never have to make a decision about something like that.
2:39 am
sprite
a shame, isn't it? I'd gladly make that decision right now
2:39 am
grannyrose
*giggling*
2:40 am
grannyrose
i am making minestrone soup for the community lunch on friday. it's amazing how many different recipes there are.
2:42 am
grannyrose
the one i am using ne4s beef shanks and pork belly. i am going to use diced beef, cut very finely, and a pork rib, using as much as i can of that.
2:43 am
sprite
sounds good to me
2:43 am
sprite
that B in the corner is being snarky
2:43 am
Glantarell
Morning all
2:44 am
grannyrose
and i am not using dried kidney beans. i think the tinned variety wasn't available when most of the recipes were written
2:44 am
sprite
morning Glant!
2:44 am
Glantarell
That 8 in the corner has a very English expression of surprise
2:44 am
grannyrose
ey ya glant. long time no see. how are you?
2:44 am
Glantarell
bl6/33
2:44 am
sprite
hehehe yes it does
2:44 am
grannyrose
and bl5/20
2:44 am
Glantarell
I am fine, thanks
2:45 am
sprite
I was having trouble spotting the words that end there
2:45 am
Glantarell
oh, alt sp of the same word :-)
2:45 am
grannyrose
good for you glant.as i am.
2:45 am
grannyrose
*grins* atta girl glant
2:46 am
Glantarell
my low carb way of eating is bringing good results, i just grew into and straight out of a pair of jeans LOL
2:46 am
sprite
woot good job!
2:46 am
Glantarell
and my work uniform, which I thought might be too small, fits perfectly...
2:47 am
sprite
well done!
2:47 am
grannyrose
oh dear.... cut them off to useas shorts, with different coloured tights underneath.
2:47 am
Glantarell
and I haven't had a migraine in over 4 months
2:47 am
sprite
that is even better
2:48 am
grannyrose
and use brightly coloured braces to hold them up
2:48 am
Glantarell
it's the waist and hips of the jeans that are too big, they were a charity shop buy, and I have a smaller apir ready and waiting...
2:48 am
Glantarell
Boobs are too big for braces LOL
2:49 am
grannyrose
*giggle* mind pics are very disturbing, glant
2:49 am
Glantarell
ha ha ha
2:49 am
sprite
sounds like you have teethy tits
2:49 am
Glantarell
he he he
2:49 am
Glantarell
i only have one anyways
2:50 am
grannyrose
i have a pair of rainbow coloured braces ready for when i ne4 them
2:50 am
Glantarell
surgeon took the other one away in 2005...
2:50 am
Glantarell
good for you rose
2:50 am
sprite
so you are a survivor, Glant
2:50 am
Glantarell
oh, yes
2:51 am
grannyrose
and now my mind has gone into a nose-dive. really glant... you are doing my head in
2:52 am
Glantarell
i celebrated 10 years last autumn, by getting an abstract watercolour tattoo to cover the scar :-)
2:52 am
sprite
oh wow, good job!
2:52 am
Glantarell
My children were astonished, because I have always been anti-tattoo
2:52 am
Glantarell
but this was different, it stopped me going ugh every time I saw myself in the mirror
2:53 am
grannyrose
was gonna comment, but you two got in before me. WTG GLANTARELL. you are amazing.
2:53 am
sprite
nothing like life-changing events to change your views of body-altering symbolism
2:54 am
grannyrose
i finally had an ultrasound of my boobs last week. i just cringe at the thought of a mammogram.
2:55 am
Glantarell
mammogram machines have improved a great deal over the last 10 years, less uncomfortable/painful now
2:55 am
Glantarell
woo hoo Sprite
2:55 am
grannyrose
hmmm....
2:55 am
grannyrose
WTG SPRITE!!!
2:56 am
Glantarell
they have 'auto-release' so you are only squished until the moment the x-ray is taken, rather than having to wait for the radiographer to return to the room...#
2:56 am
grannyrose
i have always told my GP, the day a man puts the family jewels between those plastic plates, i will have a mammogram
2:57 am
Glantarell
I believe that too many very small, very slow growing tumours are diagnosed in women over 70, which then get treated aggressively
2:57 am
sprite
well, on that note, I will go and take a shower :) *hugs* dear ladies. Sleep well, rose, and have a grand day, both of you.
2:57 am
grannyrose
enjoy your day darling sprite. xoxox and heaps of hugs.
2:58 am
Glantarell
and which probably never would have got to be life threatening, the woman would probably have lived her lifespan not knowing there was a something small
2:58 am
Glantarell
Bye Sprite, enjoy the day
2:59 am
grannyrose
i hear you glant. i know what treatment is available. and if i decide no thanx that will be it.
2:59 am
Glantarell
I think it should depend on the size of the tumour and the speed at which they think it is growing
3:01 am
Glantarell
Mine was about 4 inches by an inch when I found it, but had probably taken about 3 years to get there - and the ultrasound didn't pick it up because it was against the chest wall
3:01 am
Glantarell
but they also found cells in my lymph nodes, so i had the full kit and caboodle
3:02 am
Glantarell
i am not sure i would today, i know a lot more about diet and think i would go down that route if I have a recurrence
3:02 am
grannyrose
ugh, poor you. over here they do a wide local incision with axillary clearance.
3:03 am
Glantarell
they did a needle biopsy first, then a lumpectomy a week later, then a mastectomy with axillary clearance a week after that. It was a fun August, I can tell you!!!
3:04 am
grannyrose
in my poor mother's day it was straight into a radical mas. and the x-ray therapy. poor love never fully recovered from the trauma of the surgery. but she did go on the live until 88 years old and it was her heart which did her in.
3:05 am
grannyrose
egad glant. it just shows how strong you are.
3:05 am
Glantarell
My mum never fully recovered form the trauma of surgery either, she had her knee replaced aged 79, and went downhill form there..
3:06 am
grannyrose
it's so sad isn't it? and we are the ones who have to watch it... biting our tongues in frustration.
3:06 am
rubyfoo
Good morning ladies! We are all survivors!
3:07 am
Glantarell
Bonjour Ruby!
3:07 am
grannyrose
dearest i have to go...or not...{{hugs}} my darling ruby.
3:08 am
Glantarell
au revoir Rose, have a good evening
3:08 am
rubyfoo
(I just started to answer in French) I am happy to see you, glant, and, of course, Roiie!
3:08 am
rubyfoo
I read the whole chat before I said hello, so I'm up to speed
3:08 am
grannyrose
would you believe it? DH is sitting beside me watching an old black-and-white film made in the 1920's.
3:09 am
Glantarell
Some of those early films are very good
3:09 am
grannyrose
ruby, loves ya heaps. glant lovely to chat with you. xoxox to you both
3:13 am
rubyfoo
I'ge seen 3 good films this week, a big surprise for August: The king's Garden (with Kate Winslett), True Story (with Jonah Hill and James Franco, and Charlotte's Web (which made me cry after all these years°.
3:13 am
rubyfoo
When I read it to my son, who was already reading!, I cried so much at the end that he had to read to me
3:24 am
rubyfoo
I'm sorry that I killed the chat :(
4:48 am
HarryHood
nbs and well over halfway, but still 3! missing tiles
4:49 am
HarryHood
if anybody is here, could I get some help pls with the A, the U, or the lone E?
4:49 am
Minveryork
ah 4/7 mate!
4:49 am
HarryHood
arggghhhh
4:49 am
HarryHood
ty min :)
4:50 am
Minveryork
em 4/8 is em + I mow the lawn in my backy**d HarryHood.
4:52 am
Minveryork
em 4/8 is em + I mow the lawn in my backyar* HarryHood.
4:52 am
HarryHood
aah ty for that one min. but it's not the lone e :)
4:52 am
Minveryork
em 4/8 is em + I mow the lawn in my back*ar* HarryHood.
4:53 am
Minveryork
Sorry HarryHood, that took me three tries to clue that one
4:53 am
HarryHood
I got it after the second :)
4:53 am
Minveryork
So sorry!Not sure what you mean by the lone e HarryHood.
4:53 am
HarryHood
first column E
4:54 am
MollyL
en5 someone who is against you
4:54 am
HarryHood
got a U!
4:54 am
HarryHood
ty molly nbt!
4:55 am
HarryHood
why are you two up so early ?
4:55 am
MollyL
I am always up this early during the week.
4:56 am
HarryHood
so am I, but I think our understanding of "early" might be a bit different
4:56 am
Minveryork
I can't sleep, insomnia, which is not good because I have a long drive to VT today. I'm hoping to go back to sleep soon
4:56 am
HarryHood
I hope you get some more sleep moin
4:57 am
HarryHood
we are flying at 12:15 tonight, arrive BOS at 5:30 AM if all goes well
4:57 am
MollyL
Damn Min. It sucks to have insomnia when you're on vacation.
4:57 am
Minveryork
Might be able to sleep after I find the hy 5/18 word Harry
4:57 am
HarryHood
it's the membrane virgins have
4:58 am
Minveryork
Thanks HH!
4:58 am
MollyL
Virgin Membrane would be a great name for a punk rock band
: D
4:59 am
HarryHood
or christian rock group espousing abstinence
5:39 am
rubyfoo
I don't get the em clue
5:40 am
rubyfoo
aaah, lunch lady arrives!
5:45 am
MollyL
em + abbreviation for distance used to measure a football field
6:41 am
bichon
Harry, are you in Israel. I thought I read that you had visited the Jerusalem zoo
7:04 am
Michnick
OY! Sorry!
7:43 am
Kaplan the Magne
No way, Hunny!
7:44 am
Kaplan the Magne
Anyhow.
7:44 am
Kaplan the Magne
Just some phantoms
7:46 am
Kaplan the Magne
In onion there is strength
8:08 am
MollyL
Abbreviation Min, not the whole word
8:08 am
MollyL
Mich not Min, sorry
8:12 am
phaeton
hello...may I have stats for a 7 please
8:13 am
phaeton
are all the 7's sh?
8:17 am
suefrad625
i only have two 7's and they are both sh's
8:26 am
mael
I have 3 sh7 so far
8:28 am
bichon
I have a te 7/32
8:30 am
suefrad625
clue the te please
8:30 am
Glantarell
it's a verb to do with the te5, a kind of saw
8:30 am
Glantarell
afternoon all, back for my last 30
8:31 am
bichon
cl 5/18, pls
8:31 am
phaeton
to ascend the stairs
8:31 am
Glantarell
don't have it, sorry, only a cl5/14
8:32 am
LuvWordGames
how a monkey gets up a tree
8:32 am
Glantarell
doh, hit me with a fish lol
8:32 am
bichon
doh, ty Luv
8:32 am
Glantarell
i even had the same word without the c
8:32 am
LuvWordGames
it snakes around the grid in a weird way
8:33 am
Glantarell
i have no Us :-(
8:33 am
LuvWordGames
me neither
8:34 am
Glantarell
NBT NBS at last
8:34 am
mael
I have a un4/8 too
8:34 am
phaeton
add another vowel to the un4/5
8:34 am
Glantarell
sorry mine was a un4/6
8:35 am
Glantarell
ty Phaeton
8:35 am
phaeton
there is an un4/8
8:35 am
phaeton
hu4/7? last word
8:36 am
Glantarell
don't have that either
8:36 am
LuvWordGames
ends with the same letter it sarts with phae
8:36 am
Glantarell
have it now, straight down the grid
8:36 am
Glantarell
have it now, straight down the grid
8:37 am
phaeton
ty glant! FW
8:37 am
LuvWordGames
I'm still working on the un 4 & 5
8:37 am
LuvWordGames
wtg phae!
8:37 am
Glantarell
well done Phaeton
8:37 am
LuvWordGames
oh got it now, it builds off the un 4/6
8:38 am
phaeton
onwards and upwards...happy babbling!
8:38 am
LuvWordGames
HAGD phae
8:38 am
Glantarell
ty LuvWordGames
8:39 am
LuvWordGames
yw Glant
8:39 am
Judi
Good morning, all. Tis a wee grid today.
8:39 am
Glantarell
Tis indeed Judy
8:39 am
Glantarell
sorry, Judi
8:47 am
Judi
S'ok, Glant. I've been called worse.
8:59 am
Kaplan the Magne
if hu4 is a word, duhs should be too.
9:00 am
hurshy
ty for that one kap
9:00 am
Kaplan the Magne
sounds of inarticulate speech.
9:01 am
Judi
Sweet nothings.
9:01 am
hurshy
7's are sh x 2, te, and what?
9:02 am
hurshy
how boring :)
9:03 am
hurshy
ty got them all now
9:03 am
hurshy
i have 10 words to go and 9 boxes that aren't grey
9:05 am
mael
clue for the te7?
9:05 am
dan2bit
adj form of the te5/10
9:05 am
hurshy
it's a past tense. te + not any + the letter you need there
9:06 am
hurshy
well yes really it is an adj not a pt *blush*
9:13 am
Glantarell
ஜ۩۞۩ஜ FIREWORKS ஜ۩۞۩ஜ
9:13 am
penquis
nothing wrong with your clue, hurshy....we often say "it's a plural" when it just ends in a plural letter...
9:13 am
bichon
woot Glant
9:13 am
Glantarell
anyone need a clue before i go and start cooking dinner?
9:13 am
penquis
congrats!
9:15 am
ch1212
how about 92, Glant? I'm getting started - and startled as I looked at the grid! lol! (And congrats)
9:17 am
bichon
in 6/21, the second one, pls
9:19 am
mrloser
in 6/21 (2nd one), same first one but a vowel replaces last consonant
9:19 am
bichon
ty mrloser
9:20 am
penquis
heading out.....bbl to finish...bye all....
9:25 am
Judi
Clue for Si6, please?
9:25 am
Judi
NM. I just figured it out. Oy.
9:26 am
bichon
my last word, te 6/18, pls
9:27 am
Uneaixoise
Roger Federer, net, racquet, balls . . .
9:28 am
rururocks
a game about love
9:29 am
Uneaixoise
yw :-)
9:30 am
Uneaixoise
errands calling my name . . . BBL :-)
9:30 am
mkg
any clues for the U words? cant get then.
9:31 am
ch1212
mkg, there are two short ones for your 'delicates'
9:32 am
mkg
ty got one of them.
9:32 am
mkg
yeah judi.........!
9:32 am
ch1212
congrats, Judi!!
BBL 0 8 left
9:35 am
mkg
how about a clue for the i top row please. ty.
9:36 am
mkg
nm got it . id4
9:38 am
mkg
could use a clue for the E word first column E please. ty.
9:39 am
mixi6
you are not my em5 mkg.
9:39 am
mixi6
can't type --- en5.
9:39 am
mkg
ty. great. got it.
10:01 am
cybernan
good morning, everyone
10:11 am
dan2bit
hi cyber
10:17 am
dan2bit
firewords! tx lickety & all cluers. sh6/30 was my last sh + abbreviation of the capital of the state where U Notre Dame is
10:19 am
cybernan
no idea where UND is, never mind the state capital
10:28 am
mael
I don't blame you cybernan, I had no idea either
10:28 am
cybernan
monkeyed the word though
10:28 am
mael
but I saw the word as I was trying to figure it out
10:30 am
cybernan
*!* ta da *!* - hagd everyone
10:33 am
dan2bit
I should have gone with a Raiders of the Lost Ark clue :-)
11:42 am
Deeha
Cant believe they dont allow Australian toilet!!
11:44 am
zoozzoom
True..I even tried Dunno earlier too lol
12:23 pm
rururocks
that is kind of crappy if you ask me
12:24 pm
rururocks
enable always seems to have tissues with Australian toilets :D
12:30 pm
jesdraggon
howdy
12:31 pm
sooooo
does any one have a clue for the cl 5:18
12:32 pm
rururocks
to cl5/18 a tree
12:33 pm
sooooo
thank you . Didn't even consider the b.
1:45 pm
Jeff7
clue for the me6 pls
1:50 pm
Anniebrook
the middle finger
1:51 pm
Anniebrook
me + princess __ and we live in the __ of A
2:25 pm
mo
hi! anyone there .... must be too easy,but will stay for a while just in case anyone needs help.
2:44 pm
car.eeyore
Hello!
3:12 pm
periwinkle
hi all
3:14 pm
periwinkle
I have s7/36 help with other 7's pls
3:14 pm
periwinkle
sh7/36 that is
3:25 pm
pr
there's a t7 = [number] + [lower number] + d
3:37 pm
montreal13
SH 7/40 as well
3:39 pm
montreal13
one vowel different from SH 7/36 - bbl
3:39 pm
MollyL
sh7/36 x 2, sh7/40 and te7/32
4:55 pm
periwinkle
ty I am missing one of the sh7/36
4:59 pm
periwinkle
got the other sh7/36 ty
6:03 pm
Marc Freeman
sh7/36 please, either one
6:04 pm
Marc Freeman
I have the sh7/40
6:17 pm
MollyL
Past tense of your front leg bone and then the same word with the sometimes vowel at the end.
6:18 pm
MollyL
*Waves at the lurkers*
6:24 pm
penquis
*waving to Molly and the lurkers*....
6:25 pm
MollyL
Hi Pen. It's crowded in Lurkville.
6:25 pm
penquis
yes....just got here....have 20 to find...
6:26 pm
Marc Freeman
thanks
6:36 pm
Marc Freeman
mi6, please?
6:36 pm
penquis
not strong tasting + your tv might be in the d**.....
6:37 pm
Marc Freeman
thanks
6:41 pm
lynxxx
ni and most of a small mountain
6:42 pm
Sugrraleona
ty - I never would hav gotten that
6:44 pm
penquis
i am done...
6:44 pm
lynxxx
me too - hi, congrats and bye
6:45 pm
penquis
congrats and bye....
6:48 pm
Sugrraleona
wo6 33 - I need one, I think I have the first one
6:49 pm
Sugrraleona
LOL nm I found it LOL
7:05 pm
penquis
heading out....goodnight all....
7:29 pm
ChampFit
Hate to ask, but would someone please clue any of the E's from the second column, third row? Apparently I'm babble blind.
7:30 pm
lil*monkey
en5, French for boredom
7:30 pm
ChampFit
Thank you!
7:32 pm
lil*monkey
that's all I got :) haha
7:34 pm
ChampFit
I couldn't see a one of the, so you're a huge help...ty!
7:35 pm
torgone
ey4/6 also
7:35 pm
lil*monkey
aw thanks tor!
7:35 pm
ChampFit
that one I had....but thank you!
7:36 pm
lil*monkey
Cl5 Every Mountain! Ford every stream!
7:37 pm
lil*monkey
I just burst into song
7:43 pm
torgone
I think you got away with that one ..
7:49 pm
ChampFit
For goodness sake, give away one I need!
7:49 pm
lil*monkey
nobody noticed! ANd here I am sitting here doing Babble in the nu4
7:50 pm
lil*monkey
Georgetown University mascot in the grid
7:55 pm
lil*monkey
Venus & Serena's sport
7:57 pm
lil*monkey
So tired... I keep nodding off. Good night Babblers & have fun
7:58 pm
torgone
Niters lil*
8:15 pm
ChampFit
Sorry to miss you...good night!
8:31 pm
wvteach
** finito ** last word DE 4/8 (in England) a size of printing paper -- finished without a list
8:40 pm
ChampFit
way to go! no way I could finish without a list. that's great!
9:24 pm
Trifioso
hello dear friends
9:31 pm
torgone
Heya Trifs ..
9:33 pm
Minveryork
Hello Trifioso and torgone!How are you guys doing tonight
9:34 pm
torgone
Heya Min .. Can't complain ..
9:36 pm
Minveryork
That's good because complaining usually gets you nowhere
9:45 pm
MollyL
All the residents of Indiana log a formal complaint, but then see the chat comments and back off.
9:52 pm
torgone
Whew .. That was close ..
10:03 pm
Nef
Good Evening Everyone; how are you all tonight?
10:12 pm
torgone
We are all fine.
10:16 pm
Nef
Good to hear, tor.We are doing fine too; our State Fair starts tomorrow & I'm excited to go; but we won't begging as often as usual this year (DH has been ill recently &just doesn't have the stamina yet.
10:18 pm
Minveryork
Hello Nef! How are you doing today? Welcome to the grid.
10:19 pm
Minveryork
Sorry to hear about DH. My hubby has been ill recently too
10:20 pm
Nef
Hi, Min! Long time no see!
What's wrong with your hubby?
10:24 pm
Minveryork
He is having breathing problems which has to do with fluid build up on his lungs and belly which has 2 do with his liver
10:25 pm
Nef
:-( That's not good at his age
10:26 pm
Minveryork
This sounds heartless,but husband did it to himself with all the years of drinking.His lifestyle has finally caught to him
10:28 pm
Nef
I know; you & I talked about it several years ago. It still is hard to see though.
10:29 pm
Minveryork
Husband had 2 hospital stays in one month. They removed over 40 pounds of fluid from his belly. It keeps on building back up though because his liver is so badly damaged.
10:29 pm
Minveryork
I am going with him in a few weeks to see a liver specialist
10:30 pm
Nef
Has he stopped drinking? (It sounds like he has pretty severe cirrhousis
10:30 pm
Minveryork
He finally stopped drinking after the second hospital stay.
10:31 pm
Nef
That's good.
10:31 pm
Minveryork
When my husband got home from 1st hospital stay, he was at the bar 2 hours later drinking & we had a huge blowout
10:32 pm
Nef
I hope he didn't go through DT's.
10:32 pm
Nef
Are you still getting divorced?
10:33 pm
Minveryork
I should not even be going with him to this specialist, but I am, for what reason, who knows why.He should really left to deal with this on his own, but he has stopped drinking.
10:33 pm
Minveryork
What is DT's?
10:34 pm
Nef
delirium tremors. It's a terrible withdrawal from alcohol: they hallucinate& pretty much go through hell.
10:34 pm
Minveryork
That's another thing! I filed for divorce papers in June b-4 his recent health issues, but he just got served last week. I know the timing sucks and I did not mean for it to happen
10:36 pm
Minveryork
No, no4/4 of that fortunately. One reason why he thought he was not an alcoholic because he said he did not get the shakes if he did not drink for a few days. He's going to AA
10:37 pm
Nef
My brother has been dry for 6 years now; he went through DT's and the only thing that has kept him dry is AA.
10:37 pm
Minveryork
He has finally realized he IS an alcoholic. He also told me that he realizes alcohol was more important to him than I was. My husband is BEGGING me to stop proceedings now.
10:38 pm
Minveryork
He has lied to me for so many years to support his drinking
10:39 pm
Minveryork
Do not know if I should believe him or not. Is he telling me these things so I will not divorce him or does he really truly feel this way? I already told him that it was too late for us
10:40 pm
Nef
You need to do what is right for YOU, Min. Don't let him talk you out of it if you still want out. Sympathy isn't a good reason to stay married.
10:41 pm
Minveryork
I know deep in my heart what I ne4/5 to do, but I'm afraid he will go back to drinking if I go through with it. I cannot be responsible though if he goes back to drinking again.
10:41 pm
Nef
But; if you still love him and care about him; thetis up to you.
10:42 pm
Nef
You are NOT responsible for his drinking; that is his decision.
10:42 pm
Minveryork
I can't blame him for everything because I was an enabler.
10:43 pm
Nef
My brother lived with us 1 summer when he was going through the 90 meetings in 90 days thing. I got a lot out of AL ANON FROM IT
10:45 pm
Minveryork
I went to an ALANON me4/5ing several years ago and I did not like it. I never went to another one after that. Now I'd go to another one if I were to stay with him. Don't think I
10:45 pm
Minveryork
really need to now if I do not planning on staying with him
10:45 pm
Nef
(Sorry for the caps -or yelling there. I had a timer going off to take something out of the oven)
10:46 pm
Minveryork
I also think that if he were not going through these health problems,he'd still be drinking like a fish & would not stop
10:47 pm
Nef
so you do plan to go through with the divorce then. Good for you.
10:48 pm
Minveryork
Yes, even though the timing stinks, I ne 4/5 to go through with it. I'm hoping it's amicable and we can remain friends
10:49 pm
Minveryork
That's easy for me to say since I'm the person who wants it
10:49 pm
Nef
I suspect that the specialist may bring up the idea of a liver transplant IF he really truly has quit drinking. If they do talk about it; I want to warn you that it's a very heavy burden for the family; and he'd need a strong family support systemic he got a transplant
10:50 pm
Nef
(that was system IF; not systemic)
10:51 pm
Minveryork
Unfortunately he has NO family support. He has alienated everyone in his family because of his drinking. They are so done with him. Only support he will get is from his mother
10:52 pm
Minveryork
Another problem is health insurance.If I leave him he loses his insurance and he might not be able to get a transplant
10:52 pm
Minveryork
Once again, the guilt I will feel when I go through divorce.
10:52 pm
Nef
as crazy as my sons' ex is, they have divorced & are fairly amicable(because of my grandson). If they cane amicable after all of the grief she put them through; I'd say it's possible for anyone who wants to remain friendlycan do it
10:53 pm
Minveryork
Well we do not have any kids, so no reason to remain civil.
10:54 pm
Nef
LOL! Not unless you want to.
10:56 pm
Minveryork
Hope this depressing convo isn't stopping you from looking for words. I can help clue if you want. Been saving my last one since 5am. Needless to say haven't been able to sleep
10:56 pm
Nef
Min, it may be that your insurance may not cover a transplant for him even if you do remain married.Some insurance companies are pretty tight-fisted with their coverage; & don't do transplants on people who have caused their illness.
10:58 pm
Nef
(((Min))) I'm down to 25 words left. I did open the list about 5 or 6 words ago; I'm not worried about it at this point
10:58 pm
hurshy
minver, i had no idea about all these life circumstances of yours. i'm so sorry and wish you wisdom and peace and strength.
10:58 pm
Minveryork
Thank you hurshy!I really have not mentioned before here
10:59 pm
Minveryork
Well, I also have a story of clues in my profile you ne4/5 it
11:03 pm
Nef
Hey, Min, did you find out what your next school year will be? Will you be split between 2 buildings again?
11:05 pm
Minveryork
Yes,I will be split between the same 2 schools.Getting new Principal in one school.I hope she is not a pain in the arse.
11:07 pm
Nef
So did you like being split between schools last year? any advantages to it for you?
11:07 pm
Minveryork
Was a blessing in disguise.Thought I'd hate it,but I liked it.
11:08 pm
Minveryork
Looking forward to going back to my regular job. I taught 6 weeks of summer school with High School students and it was miserable! They were so rude and disrespectful to me
11:10 pm
Nef
That's good! :-) I certainly hope you enjoy the new principal this next year. Any gossip about her that you've heard (or maybe I should say does anyone know her & can tell others her strengths & weaknesses?
11:10 pm
Nef
Oh WOW! You didn't need THAT!
11:12 pm
Minveryork
When I went to administration for help they told me it was my fault.My family wanted me 2 quit but I needed extra $ because I spent thousands of dollars retaining my lawyer.
11:13 pm
Minveryork
My parents were so worried about me this summer & I felt bad putting them through that.Guess it's their job to worry
11:14 pm
Nef
LOL! Yes, parents worry about their kids no matter how old the kids are (spoken from experience here)
11:21 pm
Minveryork
Nef, are U ready for FWs? Would love to get mine with you
11:21 pm
Minveryork
Too tired to make it to the flip,but I can wait for your FWs
11:21 pm
Nef
I think I told you before that the Aunt who raised me was a County Superintendent of schools for many years; and because the schools all consolidated & she didn't have that job any more; she went back to teaching (she actually ended up teaching 3 generations of students in that town).
Anyway; she would always start out with the strictest rules & was really harsh at the start of the year; then would relax after she got to know the kids & they respected her.
11:22 pm
Minveryork
Was really harsh at the beginning too,but that didn't help.
11:23 pm
Nef
I have 6 words left, c's E's & an M
11:23 pm
Nef
:-( That's too bad. And its terrible the administration wasn't helpful.
11:24 pm
Minveryork
Kids spoke Spanish so they took advantage of me because they knew I did not speak the language so they would talk about me & make fun of me in Spanish.They were terrible
11:26 pm
Nef
Ce4/6, cl4/14, Em 4/8
11:26 pm
Nef
That is Horrid! Shame on those kids!
11:26 pm
Minveryork
They threw paper across the classroom whenever I turned around to write on board. They were constantly on phones
11:27 pm
Nef
Are you allowed to take their phones from them during class?
11:28 pm
Minveryork
When I expressed my concern to Principal he said I should incorporate cell phone use into the lessons. Even if I tried to take their phones, they would refuse to give it to me.
11:29 pm
Minveryork
After asking several times for student to move to another seat for talking too much he finally said "MAKE ME!" I had security removing kids from my classroom every single day
11:31 pm
Minveryork
Administration told me that I called security too much and that I should have better control over my classroom. Mind you, not once did they intervene and talk to the students
11:31 pm
Minveryork
Anyway, I ne 4/5 to stop complaining. As I told torgone b4 it gets you nowhere.Let me know what clues you want Nef
11:32 pm
Nef
It must be really tough to teach in a situation like that. I once had to give a speech to some seniors in high school who thought they knew it all & didn't listen. So I sat down & stared at them. It made them very uncomfortable after a while.
But it sounds like that class of yours wasn't interested in earning anyway, huh?
11:33 pm
Nef
And is there any way you could have filed a complaint with the superintendent of the school system about the lack of support from Adm?
11:35 pm
Nef
I finally found my M; so it's the 2nd cl, & the ce4/6 now
11:35 pm
Minveryork
That's why they are in summer school in the first place. If they did not care enough about thier learning during the school year, then they certainly weren't going care in the summer time. I am just glad that it's finally over
11:36 pm
Minveryork
2nd cl word is like previous word,ends with different letter
11:36 pm
Minveryork
ce 4/6 word is anagram of what you roll at the casinos Nef
11:37 pm
Nef
Thanks! I thought I tried that several times before
11:37 pm
Nef
Are you ready to get fireworks now?
11:38 pm
Minveryork
Yes I am. Already typed word, just have to hit "enter" key.
11:38 pm
Minveryork
Ready, set ................................
11:38 pm
Nef
okay let's do it!NOW
11:38 pm
Nef
FW! YAY, Min!!! WTG!!!
11:38 pm
Minveryork
Congratulations Nef on your fireworks display! Way to go!
11:39 pm
Nef
And Congrats to you too, Min!!! :-)
11:39 pm
Minveryork
I am finished! I have fireworks! sh7/40 was my final word.
11:39 pm
Nef
I hope you get some good sleep tonight!
11:40 pm
Minveryork
Thank you Nef for being my sounding board. I got a lot off my chest tonight.I hope to see you here again soon. Adios!
11:40 pm
Minveryork
Goodbye babblers! I leave U with a story of clues in profile
11:40 pm
Nef
Good Night to you, Min. Take care of yourself please!