12:04 am
Rainiqui
I'd like to buy a vowel
12:04 am
Lizlin
I'll double that
12:04 am
jwr
how much are you willing to pay?
12:05 am
Rainiqui
11 consonants
12:05 am
jwr
++sings another chorus of Old MacDonald Had a Farm++
12:06 am
Kamanjah
It does have eieio
;)
12:06 am
Rainiqui
I could not load the grid last night and only discovered the 42,000 grid from yesterday about 10 minutes ago
12:07 am
jwr
Maybe Rain needs a couple of As
12:07 am
Rainiqui
and then I get this???
12:07 am
TraderKate
no s for our Babbler eieios ;)
12:07 am
Rainiqui
aspirin - fer sure jwr
12:08 am
jwr
Oh, too bad, Rainqui. Is it a computer problem?
12:08 am
Lizlin
Offred is in the grid - only now she's free! At least so far in Australia!
12:08 am
Kamanjah
Doing yesterday's without Lickety wasn't easy - I ended up with a missing re that I had marked off, hursh figured out which one right off the bat, too!
12:08 am
Rainiqui
no it wasn't: did anyone else have problems last night?
12:08 am
Kamanjah
The site was down last night
12:09 am
jwr
That was the night before Kam.
12:09 am
TraderKate
andre is here ;)
12:09 am
Lizlin
At flip time, yes. The grid came up about 55 minutes late.
12:09 am
Rainiqui
any idea when it went back up?
12:09 am
Kamanjah
It was last night here. The 400+ wouldn't load until about 90 minutes after the flip time
12:09 am
jwr
You made me go google, Liz. Handmaid's Tale, huh?
12:10 am
TraderKate
what Liz said, I checked in an hour after flip and it was back up then
12:10 am
Lizlin
Yes - have seen the first 2 episodes of series 2.
12:10 am
Rainiqui
Damn - I was checking for 89 minutes !!!
12:10 am
jwr
Sounds like Dr. God's computer being restarted.
12:10 am
Lizlin
Wonder why you had problems for so long?
12:10 am
TraderKate
there are C words.. gnashing of teeth begins!
12:11 am
Lizlin
I did email Lickety yesterday but don't think he's seen it.
12:11 am
jwr
Rain - I HOPE you were kidding about the 89.
12:11 am
Rainiqui
I know eh?
12:11 am
TraderKate
different server Rain, I don't know...
12:11 am
stidmama
hello all, just ducking in for a few
12:11 am
Rainiqui
I actually checked for about an hour
12:12 am
jwr
...Dr. God has many servers...
12:12 am
Rainiqui
I'm a Canuck too Kate
12:12 am
TraderKate
I don't think I have Lickety's e-mail, forgot to check - I did drag myself to FB to messge
12:12 am
TraderKate
I saw that, EH?
12:12 am
jwr
Well, we're off again all together, Hooray!
12:12 am
Lizlin
It's on the Lickety page
12:12 am
Lizlin
Under Lickety's babble clues
12:13 am
Rainiqui
Windsor Ontario
12:13 am
TraderKate
I have friends down that way... and there are LOndon Babblers too.
12:13 am
TraderKate
argh... didn't think of looking at babble page. I foget about the links underneath.
12:13 am
jwr
I, for one, am not going to blame the good Dr. about our vowel problems.
12:16 am
TraderKate
Haha... agreed jwr!
12:18 am
stidmama
I know what is wrong with this grid. no S within a mile!
12:19 am
dizgrannie
right col cleared
12:19 am
TraderKate
hi stiddie and diz <3
12:20 am
jwr
got it, Kate! It's rare that I can get in on the pun with ruru around.
12:20 am
stidmama
(((hugs kate)))
12:20 am
stidmama
go dix go!
12:21 am
jwr
vroooom on, diz
12:22 am
stidmama
Down to 23, very tired -- hope to see you-all again before 2019! *grin* have a lovely weekend! *puts choclits in PB in case they are needed* *poof*
12:22 am
jwr
I'm proud of my 18, especially the C. That's what comes of reading Arthur Upfield long ago.
12:22 am
Lizlin
Sleep well
12:23 am
TraderKate
gn stiddie, ty Do come again!
12:24 am
Lizlin
Anyone found the 7 yet?
12:24 am
TraderKate
ty for the hugz {{{(((stiddie)))}}}
12:24 am
dizgrannie
left col cleared
12:24 am
TraderKate
not even a 6, drinking tea instea.
12:24 am
jwr
it's the C word I was talking about. Aussie cry
12:25 am
ARB
I have 4 6's. No 7
12:25 am
dizgrannie
same here
12:25 am
jwr
apology. I wasn't asked for a clue. I will bow out now.
12:26 am
jwr
Sorry twice over. That was a 6
12:26 am
TraderKate
ty jwr, appreciated... I am guesing it must be one that is pt...
12:27 am
jwr
After all these years, you'd think I would remember chog protocols. Got overexcited finding it.
12:27 am
movieman
stats for the bottom e plz
12:29 am
anike
16 to go but beating my head
12:29 am
Lizlin
19 here but totally stuck
12:30 am
TraderKate
jwr, if you want to toss out that stat...?
12:30 am
jwr
what, the C? 5/14
12:30 am
smithchick
I'm down to 5 but no 7.
12:31 am
smithchick
And hello all.
12:31 am
TraderKate
at least I have a 6 now :/
12:31 am
movieman
stats for the bottom e plz
12:31 am
smithchick
Don't have it yet.
12:31 am
TraderKate
still looking movie.
12:32 am
Lizlin
Also don't have that bottom e, movieman
12:33 am
smithchick
I'm missing a d,e,f,p and u.
12:33 am
Lizlin
Why doesn't that surprise me?
12:33 am
movieman
ty broll
12:33 am
dizgrannie
up 4 x 2
12:33 am
TraderKate
that explains it - was looking for an "endo" word.
12:34 am
smithchick
Thanks!
12:34 am
movieman
9 left here
12:34 am
Lizlin
Thanks, broll
12:35 am
TraderKate
Yay ARB!
12:35 am
jwr
good going ARB
12:35 am
Lizlin
Congrats, ARB
12:35 am
dizgrannie
WTG ARB
12:35 am
Kamanjah
WTG ARB!
12:37 am
smithchick
Congrats!
12:37 am
ARB
put the list in my profile. I'm not sure if Lickety is in sync with Babble.
12:38 am
Lizlin
Thanks ARB - much appreciated, today and yesterday too.
12:38 am
Lizlin
Congrats, Diz
12:39 am
ARB
Remember -- I play at 8 in the morning -- fresh (more or less)!
12:40 am
jwr
That's my slowest time. Getting ready to go to work not.
12:41 am
jwr
In fact, I'm off. leaving behind one more clue. If you don't want it, stop reading this now. O - the obverse of The N Word.
12:41 am
TraderKate
stowed it away in my profile, ty ARB
12:42 am
TraderKate
Congrats Diz!
12:43 am
TraderKate
and grats to jwr as well - bye hagn at work
12:43 am
Lizlin
Have a good day jwr
12:44 am
movieman
clue for the di6 plz
12:44 am
Lizlin
Just working on that word
12:45 am
Lizlin
With no luck so far
12:51 am
Lizlin
Congrats, Anike.
12:51 am
rbud
di6 - hard to clue - first 3 of the electronic di5 before it, then a vowel, then the last two of what our form of government (supposedly) is
12:51 am
rbud
just thought I'd give it a shot, haha, prolly makes little sense...
12:52 am
rbud
and congrats, anike!
12:53 am
Kamanjah
after chasing down some sort of definition of the D word, all I came up with was unisexual.
12:53 am
rbud
weird word.
12:54 am
Lizlin
Not finding it :(
12:54 am
Lizlin
You'd think I could find 3 letters!
12:54 am
Mary
hi all, can't make out the di6/ any other clue?
12:54 am
anike
Thanks all.
12:55 am
Kamanjah
It's not in the regular dictionary, as if that helps. Odd combo of last 3 letters.
12:56 am
TraderKate
this is the adj form of that di 6 rbud clued:
Biology Having the male and female reproductive organs, especially flowers, on different individuals.
12:56 am
anike
Diode 6 is a zoological word. Di + Orange county
12:56 am
TraderKate
Liz... look waaaat up!
12:58 am
anike
Try again. Do + Orange County + the last 2 letters of the political style of government in us and UK etic
12:58 am
anike
No Di plus the rest of it!!
12:58 am
TraderKate
thinks anike is tired... DI 6 or is that a dofferent word?
12:59 am
Lizlin
Orange County?
12:59 am
anike
Initials of the county
12:59 am
TraderKate
LOL, won't help us much will it Liz ;)
12:59 am
Lizlin
Never mind - perhaps I'm word blind after the last grid.
12:59 am
TraderKate
ah! good one.
1:00 am
anike
I still have it wrong...can I just give you the word..
1:00 am
TraderKate
go back to rbud's clue... top D clockwise circular pattern
1:00 am
Lizlin
Got it - thanks!
1:00 am
rbud
hahaha! would be easier, huh, anike? ;)
1:01 am
Lizlin
I was trying to end the government word with the last 2 letters of small bitey bug.
1:02 am
rbud
<---- (hopes no one needs a clue for the 7 next!) :P
1:02 am
TraderKate
Oz bitey bug... mozzie?
1:02 am
TraderKate
doesn't have the 7......
1:02 am
Lizlin
no - 3 letters beginning wth t
1:03 am
Kamanjah
I think the 7 would be easier to clue, sounds like...
1:03 am
rbud
oh, sorry, Liz, thought of that when I clued it, was thinking I should have gone with maybe something to do with frozen water, or the first two of the cy4, but that's soooo obvious, right?
1:04 am
Lizlin
Finally fireworks. Last word py 5/18
1:04 am
rbud
(and now I've done it regardless, heehee)
1:04 am
TraderKate
the di 6 was hard to clue!
1:04 am
rbud
yahoo, congrats!
1:04 am
Lizlin
Time to give my computer a break. Thanks for all the help.
1:04 am
Mary
ty bud your last post did it for me.
1:05 am
TraderKate
the penny will not drop. must be even more tired than I thought
1:05 am
TraderKate
GN Liz, and congrats!
1:07 am
rbud
what, for the 7? I needed my morewords for that, with all the excluded letters. That knocked it down to only 3 on its list, whew!
1:08 am
rbud
though really, having put just eu7 in morewords just now, there aren't many at all (even without excluded letters)
1:10 am
TraderKate
I will look, ty
1:10 am
rbud
ends in 3 vowels, like that weird to4 common babblet
1:12 am
TraderKate
found it in the list, thanks rbud!
1:13 am
rbud
another weird word!
1:13 am
TraderKate
saw euploid and pounced erroneously ;)
1:24 am
ursh
clue for the O in the first column please
1:26 am
ursh
nm found it - never see the sea :)
1:26 am
TraderKate
don't have them yet ursh, will try to look.
1:27 am
rbud
I have trouble with that sea word, too, and oddly enough, it also always takes me forever to see "asea" when it's in the grid. :D
1:29 am
rbud
does that mean I'm probably a landlubber, I wonder?
1:30 am
TraderKate
funny, we all have words that we can't find well!
1:30 am
rbud
(cause I am, have never been on anything on the water except a canoe, lol)
1:33 am
TraderKate
It's been a long time since I've seen the oc5 that's my excuse ;)
1:37 am
ursh
Fireworks again with help of kind lister ARB
1:38 am
TraderKate
Congrats ursh!
1:47 am
rbud
how come fooey doesn't work, it works with a C... :P
1:48 am
rbud
and wow, my son just gave me some money, always a pleasant surprise... he sold a car.
1:48 am
TraderKate
:D I tried to pt the coo words, no luck.
1:49 am
TraderKate
tryng to mionkey the py... it doesn't seem to be in more words - or I'm completely blind :(
1:51 am
rbud
ends like the current opi*** epidemic - or like one of those painful things that happen to one's behind that require Preparation H
1:52 am
TraderKate
ty rbud, that did it for me - finally!
must be fat fingers, I could have sworn I tried that at least twice...
1:53 am
TraderKate
typos are NOT always my friend :/
1:53 am
rbud
whew! I still have 15 to go, been too much going on here. People in and out, and it's a ridiculous hour for it all. The dogs go nuts every time.
1:54 am
TraderKate
coming and goind at 2AM? That's just silly...but I guess it IS Friday....
1:54 am
rbud
that's what happens when both kids still live here, with significant others and THEIR kids, and friends of all concerned... :P
1:55 am
TraderKate
you're running hotel, not a home! ;)
1:55 am
rbud
our place has always been kind of crazy, Hubs was very popular with the local late night crowd, too
1:56 am
rbud
plus he worked nights for years, things wouldn't really start up until after 11!
1:56 am
TraderKate
I seem to remember something about that rbud.... topsy turvey household :D
1:57 am
rbud
well, second shift. Sometimes third.
1:58 am
rbud
hey, we had a train engine catch on fire near here yesterday, out between a couple of tiny towns, took 4 or 5 local fire trucks to put it and associated brush fires around it out. There's a video, maybe I can send it over on FB.
1:59 am
rbud
kind of odd, it seemed to me, it was mostly shooting out the top of it like a torch.
1:59 am
rbud
crew was standing around waiting on the fire trucks.
2:00 am
SamanthaJoy
I'd love to see that video, rbud. Sounds fun to watch!
2:00 am
TraderKate
that happens sometimes rbud... maintenance isn't what it used to be. crap builds up... it can be very hard tjo put out those deisel fires...
2:01 am
TraderKate
I'm sure the RR guys would like to see itto - can you just post it to my wall?
2:03 am
rbud
I think so, the guy made it public. Not sure about putting a link here, Samantha, might be fun to try, hmmm...
2:03 am
TraderKate
LOL... I had to go look in the files to see who you were... I know FB R4 and rbud, but can't seem to put them together... there are very few that I link between FB and Babble - maybe a half dozen. Hopeless with screen names.
2:03 am
TraderKate
if you put the link here, tiny URL it...
2:05 am
TraderKate
Brush fires? Is it dry where you are? We have been pretty wet here....
2:06 am
TraderKate
If it happened at night, it's like a firewoks diplay with all the sparks flying :D
2:11 am
rbud
no, not at night, bet that *would* be something to see!
2:13 am
TraderKate
It's on my wall, ty for taking the time rbud... the foamer page will love it, and it will give the real railroader pages something to take potshots at.
2:15 am
rbud
I see someone has a theory on the cause in the comments, didn't see that yesterday. No idea if they know what they're talking about or not.
2:16 am
rbud
here's what I got from tiny URL, not sure if it works if you're not on facebook, but worth a shot.
https://tinyurl.com/y8rjalyd
2:18 am
rbud
And now you know who I am at Fb, Kate, we do a lot of back and forth there, it seems. My dad retired from the Rock Island Line way back when, have always been fond of trains and train lore.
2:20 am
rbud
I have the same "avatar" pic there as here, had forgotten that.
2:20 am
TraderKate
I just checkied the tiny url rbud, it works fine.
2:22 am
TraderKate
One day I will tie You on FB with YOU here... I really am hopeless. To me rbud and rose are 2 different people. :(
2:24 am
TraderKate
and I have 4 x rose in FB too
2:26 am
rbud
well, the would make it more difficult, gosh. I've met a few other Roses along the way, and of course grannyrose in here, but I don't mention I'm Rose, too, very often, when she's here, and others are calling her Rose - it's just confusing, haha
2:26 am
rbud
*that, not "the"
2:28 am
rbud
oh! just got my last 6, fo6, the melty cheese and/or chocolate pot with long forks...
2:31 am
TraderKate
between the grannys/roses/stids and overlap in Fb I am permanently confuzzled. The same icon pic is very helpful... but most people change their profile pics. (This is why I don't - easily identifiable, though I did try to change my Babble one to same as FB.. can't seem to find my profile pic in PC!)
2:32 am
TraderKate
Wooot! Go rbud go!
2:36 am
rbud
grrrr, son is outside revving his race car motor... bet the neighbors love that. But then again, they've been putting up with loudness from the shop out there for years, as Hubs fixed Harleys all the time.
2:37 am
rbud
luckily not much for neighbors, only one other house inhabited on the whole block.
2:42 am
TraderKate
Do you live in a ghost town rbud? I would have thought the neighbours would be having fits ;)
2:46 am
rbud
well, it's very small, and we own most of our block - AND there are train tracks right beside us, with trains using it a few times a day (there's a wye here, they set up the cars and then take off) That's louder, so maybe they don't mind the other noises? They never seem to complain.
2:50 am
TraderKate
Either that, or they're deaf. LOL ;)
Maybe they are nightowls too...
2:59 am
rbud
aha, just sent over some stills I found that show the side of the engine post-fire.
3:00 am
TraderKate
thanks rbud :)
3:04 am
rbud
glad that didn't happen right next to our house - though shortly after we moved here 25+ years ago, one did manage to derail about 5 or 6 cars right across the crossing a block from here. Much fuss ensued. Only crossing from the backside of town, they all had to use a tiny dirt two-rut path along the tracks for days until it was cleared up.
3:06 am
rbud
have often thanked the powers that be that we're on the "right" side of the tracks, and are never trapped behind a long train like they are over there. :D
3:10 am
TraderKate
Ah... gotta love derailments... sounds like you chose well with the site - nothing worse than getting stuck at a crossing - unless the train stop..which is awful!
3:14 am
ivesy3
clue for the an plz
3:15 am
TraderKate
electonics word ivesy
3:15 am
TraderKate
an 5/12
3:16 am
TraderKate
my pleasure :)
3:16 am
rubyfoo
Bonjour! Still no access to e-mail!
3:17 am
TraderKate
pauvre ruby :(
bonjour ma cher!
3:17 am
rubyfoo
Lapto p was "in the shop" for almost a month and now, with memory totally erased, no access!
3:18 am
rubyfoo
My correspondents probaly think l've died!
3:18 am
TraderKate
Oh no ruby... not sure I understand why? no access?
3:18 am
rubyfoo
My son was concerned enoguh (rare!) to telephone
3:19 am
rubyfoo
l don't know either, but tomorrow a friend will see if he can figure it out.
3:19 am
rubyfoo
My usual helper, Nadia, is tied up for the weekend
3:19 am
rubyfoo
lt's annoying, but not tragic! LOL
3:21 am
TraderKate
Look at all the time you have for other things ;)
3:22 am
rubyfoo
lt's true
3:22 am
TraderKate
So, it's all worth it, since son called :D
3:23 am
TraderKate
How are the pups?
3:24 am
rubyfoo
yesterday we made ahuge bouquet of double lilacs for the livig room. The bush was planting specifically to provide cut flowers as it's in the bottom garden, not visible from the house
3:24 am
rubyfoo
sorry for typos, l can't really read what l write..........
3:24 am
TraderKate
Ooooh! I adore the smaell of lilacs!
3:25 am
TraderKate
I wouldn't worry about typos... LMAO
3:25 am
rubyfoo
My "angel<<<michele", who used to work for a florist, showed me how to make them last longer
3:26 am
TraderKate
What is her trick?
3:27 am
rubyfoo
You either pound the stems with a hammeror split them with a nife, so they can take in water
3:27 am
rubyfoo
They are very thirsty
3:27 am
TraderKate
Oh yes... good idea.
3:28 am
TraderKate
:D
no4 that's not a word ;)
3:28 am
rubyfoo
Yhey still don't last very long, but without that, they only last a day
3:29 am
TraderKate
pick them when the first of the buds starts to open and try either a bit of sugar or a crushed aspirin in the water (changed daily)
3:30 am
rubyfoo
We add the powder that the supermarket provides with cut flowers but l cn only add water as there's no way l could like the vase
3:30 am
TraderKate
A very belated Happy Birthday ruby... I haven't been on FB :/
3:31 am
TraderKate
florist powder is good too!
3:32 am
rubyfoo
Thank you. With lilacs, on my "table scape" lf have two "gift" plants, white orchids and white arum lilies
3:33 am
rubyfoo
lt's all very grand. As l get smaller, the flowers get taller!
3:33 am
TraderKate
Pretty! Can you plant the lilies out when they are finished blooming?
3:33 am
rubyfoo
l think so
3:33 am
TraderKate
<picturing the incredible shrinking ruby> :D
3:34 am
rubyfoo
Since the lilies are white, l can have themplanted near the white peonies
3:38 am
rubyfoo
nfortunately, l can't even dig holes any more
3:40 am
TraderKate
Teach the pups t dig? Just kidding... That's too bad ruby. yu used to ove to work away in the garden.
3:41 am
rubyfoo
l can get down, just can't get back up
3:42 am
TraderKate
I need to give my keybosrd a good cleaning out... not hitting the keys hard enough. End up missing every secnd letter
3:42 am
rubyfoo
Raffie's specialty is squashing iris!
3:43 am
TraderKate
Scecialising now, how the time flies! Too bad it's the irises... naughty puppy!
3:44 am
TraderKate
Now that it's past stupid o'clock, went to the kitchen to forage... there's a wasp on the loose in there...
3:45 am
rubyfoo
She can do no wrong as she is the village princess. People come by to tke the two dogs' photos
3:46 am
rubyfoo
I found a dead "leglesslizard" after the lawn was mowed, threw it in the pond, and it was instantly Grabbed by a monstergoldgfish fromthe deep
3:47 am
TraderKate
Of course, this news does not surprise me in the least... she is a beaut... they both are. :)
3:47 am
rubyfoo
When the housekeeper walks them, she prétends they're hers, so proud is she!
3:48 am
TraderKate
I did see that ruby - the watch dogs alerted you to its presence...:D
3:48 am
rubyfoo
sorry for th repeat, getting old!
3:50 am
TraderKate
LOL, how are you supposed to remember who saw what? Don't worrry about it. I repeat myself too. You might want t give that goldfish a name, if it's big enough to eat the lizard...
3:53 am
rubyfoo
That's funny because yesterday, when my friend and l were feeding and admiring the lovely fish, we named 4that we could recognize (out of hundreds!): Spot, Mr; Clown, Ghost and Angel (because of his very long white fins)
3:53 am
TraderKate
tricky one to clue ivesy. 1 sec
3:53 am
ivesy3
ok.. does it work off of the 5
3:54 am
TraderKate
starts like the electonics part + a vowel + first half of a colour in the grid?
3:55 am
TraderKate
clockwise circular pattern to the word in the grid, if that helps.
3:55 am
ivesy3
ty kate , will work on it
3:56 am
TraderKate
and I will work on a better clue.
3:56 am
rubyfoo
you're kidding, right? LOL
3:58 am
ivesy3
i dont get the electronics part lol
3:58 am
rubyfoo
ldon't get the color
3:59 am
ivesy3
me either ruby lol
4:00 am
rubyfoo
OMG,l finally reached half, my big goal for the day!
4:00 am
TraderKate
Italian for "god" + r***ling bin (for glass/paper/cans etc to be collected along with the grbage)
4:01 am
ivesy3
ahhh got it!! ty
4:01 am
ivesy3
great clue
4:01 am
TraderKate
tough letter combo...
4:02 am
TraderKate
the colour is one of 4 that is in a printer... it is a shade of blue. the word was cy 4/7
4:02 am
rubyfoo
especially formy empty head!
4:03 am
TraderKate
and now I've just pretty much given it away completely :(
4:03 am
TraderKate
sorry folk!
4:05 am
rubyfoo
l still didn't get it, but l appreciate your effort!
4:05 am
TraderKate
ivesy... you got the as 5... do you not have the similar word?
4:05 am
TraderKate
grrr AN 5*
4:06 am
ivesy3
yes , i have the an 5..
4:07 am
ivesy3
i hate doing it without lickey.. never know what word goes where
4:07 am
TraderKate
I was just reading back.. so you did name some of the more special fish :D
4:07 am
TraderKate
there is a DI word that is th AN5's relative.
4:08 am
ivesy3
oh ok.. didnt know that
4:08 am
TraderKate
That's what triped you up with the first clue - I assumed you had that word already.
4:09 am
rubyfoo
We started with 23 red OR yellow "feeders" and now have hundreds of multicoloredones, even some with black fins
4:09 am
ivesy3
oh no prob.. the other clue was great
4:10 am
rubyfoo
l give up for now, l think NYT was just delivered & l'll have an early lunch
4:10 am
TraderKate
Very nice ruby! that must be quite a fish pond to behold... it must be very relaxing to sit and watch.
4:11 am
rubyfoo
See you later
4:11 am
TraderKate
bye ruby, have an enjoyable day!
4:12 am
rubyfoo
lt's beautiful, ws my husband's hobby, and there will be waterlilies by June (only leaves, so far) and thz fountain in the middle is blocked
4:12 am
rubyfoo
lt is always surprising that the fish and plants survive the brutalwinters
4:12 am
TraderKate
Oh my! You will have to take some pictures when it's in full bloom!
4:14 am
rubyfoo
lt attracts birds, including a heron who comes for breakfast, by day, and bats in the evenings
4:14 am
TraderKate
It's THAT big? A heron... you ARE lucky! Do you know what kind?
4:16 am
rubyfoo
Just a common big white one. My husband used to try to shoot it, but there are enough fish to share
4:16 am
rubyfoo
The pond isn't that big andl think the fish eat the Young when there are too many
4:17 am
TraderKate
Fish are cheap too... well worth any restocking needed to have a resident heron!
4:18 am
TraderKate
They can be canibalistic... even among their own species.. good thing goldfish are plentiful and inexpensive,
4:19 am
TraderKate
and again with the typos... sigh
4:19 am
rururocks
That way the heron won’t have any egret
4:19 am
rubyfoo
Not here! The feeders, which sell for one or two $/ dozen in Miami, cost one euro EACH here. If l could sell mine, they are Worth 10euros or more for each
4:20 am
rubyfoo
Or l could eat themif l go broke!
4:20 am
rubyfoo
l'm a cannibal, too
4:21 am
TraderKate
Wow... sounds like you should be going to the river and scooping up some to bring home...
How do yu prepare goldfish - pan fried or baked?
4:21 am
TraderKate
yes.. another of my typos :(
4:22 am
TraderKate
goldfish and chips... could be quite a thing ;)
at lest we know that you will be well fed, come what may.
4:22 am
rururocks
Goldfish sushi. Like carp-accio
4:22 am
rubyfoo
Maybe gefulte (sp?) fish as thet are, after all, carp
4:23 am
TraderKate
Maybe you should start sideline as fishie breeder? You said there are some pretty ones... tell them to make babies!
4:23 am
TraderKate
....aaand there's ruru! Hihi :D
4:24 am
rubyfoo
no carping ru! You'd be well-fed here. And no egrets living in this little corner of Heaven!
4:24 am
TraderKate
carp and chips doesn't have the same cache though...
4:24 am
rubyfoo
L think that's what they do Under the ice
4:24 am
TraderKate
ruby scores a double!
4:25 am
rubyfoo
With all the drugs the gov't gives me, l could start two enterprises
4:25 am
TraderKate
We have lured ruru out..he has fallen for our bait hook, line, and sinker.
4:26 am
rururocks
Maybe Coq au Fin?
4:26 am
TraderKate
:D
ruby, drug dealer extraordinaire....
4:26 am
TraderKate
ouch! that was painfully good ruru
4:27 am
rubyfoo
There's a coque living up the hill from me, and he's given me his phone number!
4:27 am
TraderKate
Was that zinger gill-t free?
4:27 am
TraderKate
Do tell, ruby....
4:28 am
rururocks
Kind of a gourami meal
4:28 am
TraderKate
I have no more illusions about ruru. There scales have been pulled back from mine eyes
4:28 am
rubyfoo
We'll see; l'm about 10 years too old for that particular pastime
4:29 am
TraderKate
Do you just sit there and perch waiting for an opening?
4:29 am
rururocks
Usually i am just being coi
4:29 am
rubyfoo
He was a dog fancier -- liked my fancy dogs
4:30 am
TraderKate
and he also liked your fancy puppies :D
4:30 am
rubyfoo
l'm notcarping; you're a cutie, ru!
4:31 am
rubyfoo
The drug of choice in the US is almost in the grid
4:31 am
TraderKate
Trying to sing ruru a song, butI'm out of tun-a
4:32 am
TraderKate
that ending will come in handy ruby. for a tricky 5...
4:32 am
rubyfoo
l think it's Japanese tuna
4:32 am
TraderKate
or close to it, didn't mean to mislead you.
4:34 am
rubyfoo
see you later kids, time for food and the NYT Sunday puzzle
4:35 am
TraderKate
Sunday puzzle? wow..... have fun
4:41 am
TraderKate
I'll go visit sudoku for a while.
4:55 am
TraderKate
ARB and I have lists in profile if anyone wants it.
5:25 am
mattygroves
"Old MacDonald had a farm..." Enable doesn't accept the next line though ;)
5:25 am
MollyL
It should with this many vowels.
: D
5:26 am
MollyL
Oh, and there is a player with that name, so she gets the Babble tiara today.
5:31 am
mattygroves
Haa! Excellent.
5:44 am
sukee
Can someone put me out of my misery and clue the di 6/30?
5:47 am
lbdawger
I'm stuck on that one too, sukee
5:47 am
mattygroves
And me...
5:48 am
sukee
Doing a word search doesn't help either
5:49 am
MollyL
Start like the di5 and end with the last three of a pr word that means a foretelling of what will be
5:50 am
MollyL
It is a biology word meaning both male and female organs
5:51 am
mattygroves
thank you!
5:52 am
sukee
and FW. I thought I tried that already.
5:52 am
sukee
Thank you Molly
5:53 am
sukee
Breakfast time, good luck
5:53 am
mattygroves
FW. Have a great day
6:01 am
lbdawger
thank you Molly, got interrupted and distracted.
6:31 am
Uneaixoise
FW! HAGD everyone! :-)
6:36 am
aebmusica
Mahi, Mahi...I enjoyed the fish puns in the chat earlier!
6:44 am
Sandieangel
Hi has anyone got a list up today. Stuck on a couple and would like to look up what I'm missing.
6:45 am
aebmusica
ARB and Traderkate
6:46 am
MollyL
I have a list in my profile
6:46 am
Sandieangel
Thanks for the info. Much appreciated x
6:58 am
maggiej
any other clues for di 6?
6:59 am
aebmusica
Help with the di6, please...couldn't understand the one given earlier.
7:01 am
aebmusica
nvm...found it
7:01 am
Frances
di6/30 di + f
7:01 am
Frances
di6/30 di + f
7:01 am
Frances
di6/30 di + f
7:01 am
Frances
di6/30 di + f
7:01 am
Frances
di6/30 di + f
7:01 am
Frances
di6/30 di + f
7:01 am
Frances
di6/30 di + f
7:01 am
Frances
di6/30 di + f
7:01 am
Frances
di6/30 di + f
7:01 am
Frances
di6/30 di + f
7:03 am
MollyL
di6...let's try the first three of the di5 + the last three of when you know something that should not be told and you are sworn to se7
7:04 am
MollyL
It sounds like a really bad spelling of a division of the Catholic church
7:04 am
Frances
di6/21 di + f** (enemy) + la** (delicate material)
7:05 am
aebmusica
ty Molly found it at7:00
7:16 am
justice
is there a list?
7:24 am
dan2bit
stats for the bottom row E, anybody?
7:25 am
TraderKate
EU 7/36
7:25 am
dan2bit
thanks TK!
7:29 am
TraderKate
yw dan, anything else? I'm gonna take off soon. Just dropped in for a quick visit.
7:30 am
MollyL
I have ARB's list in my profile
7:31 am
TraderKate
Oh good Molly! See you later then; have a good day :)
7:33 am
Babbleybrook
Thank you Molly for sharing the list. Much appreciated.
7:38 am
dan2bit
can anybody clue the py5?
7:40 am
lynxxx
py and a v*** is an empty space
7:41 am
dan2bit
ty lynxxx and Molly and ARB and rbud and all cluers - firewords
7:41 am
lynxxx
congrats Dan
7:41 am
dan2bit
off to assemble miss2bit's new birthday bike
7:41 am
lynxxx
wow - is it really 8 years
7:43 am
MollyL
Happy Birthday to 2Bit's girl.
7:44 am
MollyL
Oops, I'm early. 2Bit must be doing that "some assembly required" thing.
7:46 am
dan2bit
yes golden birthday approaches - turning 8 on the 8th
7:54 am
LuvWordGames
clue for eu 7/36 please?
7:56 am
Babbleybrook
Eu7 eu+ consonant +opposite of yes+two vowels.
7:56 am
LuvWordGames
thanks Babbley!
8:04 am
grantru
Someone have a word list?
8:06 am
mixi6
molly has one.
8:56 am
car.eeyore
Good lord, if I set the date back on my computer, can I get yesterday's grid back instead?
9:02 am
MollyL
I doubt it, but setting the date and time back would be a great way to mess with a co-worker.
: D
9:07 am
NatashaW
i definitely think "fooey" describes this board
9:07 am
Shirlockc
i tried that too
9:08 am
car.eeyore
LOL ;)
9:08 am
NatashaW
think it's properly spelled phooey
9:08 am
Shirlockc
i know how it's spelt, but hope springs eternal
9:13 am
Scrabbler
Hahaha. We go from 404 to 60 words.
9:13 am
Shirlockc
i missed a 404 grid?! booooo, that's what happens when i have to actually work for a living
9:14 am
Scrabbler
It was fun typing away.
9:24 am
NatashaW
woot far right column blacked out...only 22 mountains left to climb
9:24 am
Scrabbler
Go Natasha.
9:25 am
NatashaW
lol scrabbler
9:25 am
Scrabbler
I need 38 and see nothing.
9:25 am
NatashaW
I suck at thinking up weird scientific terms with many vowel combos. give me rope, dope, hope.
9:26 am
Shirlockc
cope with the trope
9:26 am
NatashaW
grope without hope.
9:26 am
Scrabbler
Trope is a word that I see everywhere now, just on the last few weeks.
9:28 am
NatashaW
why isn't dipod a word? tripod is
9:28 am
NatashaW
oops sorry
9:30 am
Scrabbler
Dipods can't hold up a camera.
9:39 am
Scrabbler
28 left. Maybe I will return tonight. Off to a funeral soon.
9:39 am
NatashaW
sorry to hear...
9:41 am
rururocks
Grope without hope is what got Weinstein in trouble natasha
9:48 am
flosey
good morning - I hope!
9:48 am
Shirlockc
i bow to your humor ruru
9:48 am
NatashaW
is there a list somewhere? stuck in f-land.
9:49 am
NatashaW
luckily groping for words in babble isn't against the law ruru
9:50 am
Shirlockc
di6 pls?
9:50 am
cybernan
hello all -- was hoping for something a little more than this!
9:51 am
NatashaW
no idea shirlock - but where are you seeing a list?
9:52 am
Shirlockc
Molly has a list on her profile
9:54 am
TraderKate
DI 6/30 "god" in Italian + r***cling bin (cans/glass/paper put out with trash)
drive by clue.... bye ;)
9:55 am
NatashaW
wow kate I'm in awe you found that
9:56 am
TraderKate
I take no credit; it was pretty much spoon fed by rbud ;)
9:56 am
Shirlockc
thx TK for the drive by! that's FW!
9:57 am
TraderKate
Woooot!!!! see ua!
9:57 am
NatashaW
well thx for sharing it!
9:57 am
NatashaW
congrats Shirlock! Got 8 to go here
9:57 am
TraderKate
yw, hagd :D
<waves to all>
9:57 am
mkg
any clues for the 7? ty
9:58 am
Shirlockc
eu7 <-- i cheated with morewords
9:58 am
NatashaW
e+opposite of down+opposite of yes + 2 vowels
9:59 am
NatashaW
opposite of sleep ap___
10:02 am
mkg
wow. ty. weird word.
10:03 am
NatashaW
actually means breathing correctly/well
10:05 am
mkg
no lickety eh?
10:06 am
NatashaW
mollyL has a list on her profile
10:08 am
mkg
ho do i get to mollyl profile?
10:09 am
NatashaW
go to who's online tab next to chatterbox and scroll down
10:09 am
NatashaW
then copy/paste the list to a doc
10:11 am
cybernan
stats for 2nd e in last column please?
10:11 am
NatashaW
i could never have done this grid w/o the list. waaay too many babblets.
10:11 am
LeslieAnn
i've got ei 5/12 but not the other nan
10:12 am
NatashaW
take off last letter Leslie
10:12 am
LeslieAnn
that's for the top e
10:13 am
NatashaW
there's only 2 ei's Leslie
10:13 am
cybernan
ty leslie
10:14 am
LeslieAnn
right, nan is asking for a clue for the second e in the last column. i have one of the words but not the other
10:15 am
NatashaW
lyric poem in couplets
10:15 am
mkg
cant get the second u word: 4.7. clues welcome
10:16 am
NatashaW
gettin' ready for the prom... put my hair in a chignon...
10:16 am
cybernan
ep 5/14 isn't it?
10:16 am
NatashaW
yes, you right nan
10:16 am
NatashaW
sorry my eye always skips a line
10:17 am
rururocks
hope you don't have steak tonight natasha
10:17 am
NatashaW
by the way mkg it's the 1st u word not 2nd
10:17 am
NatashaW
i'm a veg ruru... 45 years no steak!
10:17 am
rururocks
nothing worse than filet chignon for vegetarians
10:18 am
NatashaW
ruru u rule
10:19 am
cybernan
glad I'm not a vegetarian -- can't imagine surviving without filet mignon smothered with bernaise sauce
10:19 am
NatashaW
I couldn't either when I was young - adored steak, super rare. College dining hall put me off meat.
10:20 am
NatashaW
Once I started THINKING about what I was eating... that was the end of it for me.
10:20 am
cybernan
lol - can understand that, natasha - as I recall, everything was overcooked and tasteless
10:20 am
NatashaW
They'd serve things that looked like an open sore...
10:21 am
NatashaW
And this was YALE, mind you. The only time they had edible food was parents' weekend.
10:22 am
NatashaW
All of a sudden they'd roll out huge wheels of cheese and gorgeous coldcut platters. We'd all be telling our parents, "Um, no, this is NOT what they usually serve us."
10:24 am
cybernan
that's what happens when the money goes to profs doing research full time and schools supporting football teams
10:26 am
cybernan
down to 14 - need to find a list
10:26 am
rururocks
looks like I have to list with 11 to go too
10:27 am
rururocks
thank you ms Molly
10:27 am
rururocks
(and Arb)
10:27 am
MollyL
My profile is right here if needed.
10:28 am
MollyL
ARB is the list making star. I just copy and paste for easy access.
: D
10:28 am
cybernan
thanks molly
10:28 am
MollyL
And I put the spaces in, if needed, because the list reads easier for me that way.
10:30 am
MollyL
College dining hall food was gross, but it never put me off meat. I am a carnivore by nature.
10:30 am
NatashaW
Thanks Molly! You helped me get to FW!
10:31 am
NatashaW
di6 Italian for god +r__cling your soda can in the blue bin
10:33 am
Chris P
thank you - would never have got that Fireworks
10:33 am
NatashaW
me neither Chris, someone clued it earlier.
10:33 am
NatashaW
I just shamelessly copied
10:34 am
Chris P
No shame in that!
10:34 am
NatashaW
turns out it means having male reproductive organs in one individual and female in another. Like, pretty much most species...
10:36 am
rururocks
I'm all for that
10:36 am
LeslieAnn
ok one 6 left. have de, di (thx natasha), fo, po, ye, yo
10:37 am
rururocks
Italians have their reproductive organs in everything more or less
10:37 am
NatashaW
there's two fo 6's
10:38 am
LeslieAnn
cool thanks
10:38 am
LeslieAnn
how could i have missed the cheese
10:38 am
rururocks
one of the fo's is kind of cheesy
10:38 am
NatashaW
I know!!! I gave myself a fish slap when I finally saw it Leslie
10:46 am
periwinkle
hi all. help with top O in left column pls
10:49 am
chrisk
Hi Peri - oc 5/12 Let me know if you want a clue.
10:50 am
periwinkle
clue pls
10:51 am
chrisk
Atlantic or Pacific
10:51 am
periwinkle
ty big fish slap for me
10:54 am
cybernan
called away, now back to the 14
10:55 am
bichon
I don't understand the de 6 help, pls
10:56 am
periwinkle
past tense of head of a college (de4/5)
10:56 am
periwinkle
how are you feeling today, bichon?
10:56 am
MollyL
*Cleans up all the fish mess all over the chat
10:57 am
bichon
A little less bad. Got my voice back. Thank you for asking.
10:57 am
MollyL
"Kind of cheesy"...good clue
: )
10:59 am
MollyL
And shameless copying is the name of the game here
10:59 am
flosey
FW and thanks Molly for today's list - would not have finished without it
11:00 am
periwinkle
good to hear bichon
11:03 am
periwinkle
bottom E pls
11:07 am
cybernan
eu 7 - ends like sleep disorder
11:08 am
periwinkle
ty nan
11:08 am
periwinkle
12 left for later.
11:08 am
cybernan
cannot monkey that py 5 -- clue please?
11:09 am
periwinkle
great day. going to read outside.
11:10 am
dan2bit
robot ending, cybernan
11:11 am
cybernan
*!*~*!* - thanks for the help everyone and for the list, molly
11:29 am
NatashaW
I looked up py5... eewww.
11:46 am
harpjane
what are the stats for the lower O please
11:48 am
harpjane
and the 7 stats?
11:52 am
Douglas
Does anyone remember Faye Wray?
That delicate, satin-draped frame?
Faye is in the grid.
11:54 am
MollyL
King Kong's afternoon snack
11:55 am
harpjane
or Dunnaway
11:58 am
Douglas
Dion, who warned people about Runaround Sue, is in the grid. This is what I do when I'm not seeing any words
12:04 pm
pigeonman
any stats for the bottom E?
12:04 pm
Turt
clue for the di 6?
12:04 pm
Turt
bottom e - eu 7 36
12:05 pm
pigeonman
Thanks Turt
12:06 pm
Turt
i'm not sure it makes it any easier. strange word.
12:07 pm
bichon
co 5/14, pls
12:09 pm
Turt
past tense of what the baby said
12:14 pm
Turt
yw. i am stuck on the di 6. it's my last. frustration!!
12:17 pm
MollyL
di + two vowels + bridal gowns are often la**
12:18 pm
MollyL
I think that di6 just needs to get posted in the chat. It is the most asked for word today.
12:19 pm
MollyL
But then, that would be encouraging the bitter, "don't you just love it" profile hit and runner.
12:27 pm
Turt
ty molly! fireworks!
1:03 pm
rururocks
I wish we could just sprinkle sugar in the chat to fight off the bitterness :D
1:06 pm
rururocks
or at least ice cream :D
1:10 pm
MollyL
That would be nice Ru. And if people want to be bitter, so be it. But hiding behind a fake name is chickenshit.
1:41 pm
libarebel
Di**** -- (Greek: διοικία "two households"; adjective form''-- that's what google yielded-- reverse lookup?
1:43 pm
libarebel
It's not in the Enable dictionary...
1:51 pm
hurshy
so fancy getting the greek letters in here!
1:53 pm
libarebel
copied 'em :-D
1:53 pm
hurshy
i come up with words sometimes, and they sound so real... and then they ain't
1:55 pm
libarebel
I hate when that happens...
2:02 pm
hurshy
name that proper noun! sigmund the psychoanalyzer
2:03 pm
hurshy
ding ding ding!
2:03 pm
libarebel
aarrgghh! Sorry!
2:04 pm
libarebel
not a word anyway...
2:04 pm
hurshy
it's ok, you just were a little late for the dings
2:04 pm
hurshy
of course it's not a word, i wouldn't play NTPN if it counted in the grid.
2:05 pm
libarebel
:D-- ok
2:06 pm
hurshy
ok, i have two words left, a C4 and 5
2:06 pm
zoozzoom
The house next door to me was sold a while ago and now the new neighbours son is really noisy. Well his 8-9 friends are. they are around the 19 years stage.
2:07 pm
hurshy
oh geez, zooz, i'm so sorry
2:07 pm
zoozzoom
Congrats, Hurshy!
2:07 pm
rubyfoo
that is awful, zzoozz! Are there any "noise laws" there?
2:07 pm
zoozzoom
I don't mind them enjoying themselves, I mean I was a but like that at that age but wish they would tone it down a bit.
2:08 pm
libarebel
C5 comes from the root to make lovey noises-- one who does and one who is the recipient
2:08 pm
rubyfoo
Music, too?
2:08 pm
zoozzoom
There are, Ruby but they are a bane to use and it takes an age. Also I do not want to start a neighbour war.
2:09 pm
zoozzoom
Music yes but mostly very loud shouting and banging about with the doors etc.
2:09 pm
zoozzoom
Thankfully it is mostly confined to Friday night Sat & Sunday.
2:10 pm
rubyfoo
My previous neighbor had 3 boys Under 6 and a pool to amplify the noise. We couldn't sit outtside and have a conversation.
2:11 pm
rubyfoo
No my neighbor isa weaalthy pig who keeps having his side of MY hedge cut
2:11 pm
zoozzoom
I suppose if this house was built better and not with these very thin walls it would be a lot better. Maybe I am just a miserable old git.
2:12 pm
zoozzoom
Is he still doing that, Ruby. Thought that was sorted.
2:12 pm
rubyfoo
My house was built on the cheap and there's no sound (or other) inssulation and of course, no heat.
2:13 pm
libarebel
co5/16 is the adjective fporm of same root...
2:13 pm
zoozzoom
Your house sounds just like how my house is built.
2:14 pm
zoozzoom
Australian hello :-)
2:14 pm
rubyfoo
l wrote him a civil but form&l letter, but lt's still early in the season. lmay have to hire an assassin.
2:14 pm
zoozzoom
I say that only as Grannyrose uses that saying a lot here lol
2:15 pm
zoozzoom
Ah so it might be that he will leave off the trimming then, Ruby!
2:16 pm
zoozzoom
I am now playing whit noise to see if that will drown out there din lol
2:16 pm
rubyfoo
Todaya neighbor took me to the plant store& ol bought an enormous number of plants: "cheats" for the borders, others for in front of the house and many for the deck.
2:17 pm
rubyfoo
She had to carry themdown to the housenfor,pe, much too much fornwimpy me!
2:17 pm
zoozzoom
Nice sounds like you are having it all spruced up!
2:18 pm
rubyfoo
l can't plant them myself, but hopefully somebody (gardener, handyman) will come to dig and carry.
2:19 pm
rubyfoo
l ven bought small tomato plants for the deck as l can no longer get down to the ptager
2:19 pm
zoozzoom
No but at least you can have it all planned out to how you want it!
2:19 pm
rubyfoo
Getting old is no joke, but better than the alternative
2:20 pm
zoozzoom
I hope your tomato plants will do better than the last lot you had.
2:20 pm
zoozzoom
That is true, Ruby.
2:21 pm
rubyfoo
lt's funny that you remember; l remember nothing of last summer. l guess l was too sick
2:21 pm
zoozzoom
Nothing exciting happens in my life, Ruby LOL
2:21 pm
zoozzoom
Yes you were rather poorly, Ruby. so glad things are getting better for you!
2:22 pm
rubyfoo
lf something exciting happened in mine, l'd probably forget it. <<lol
2:22 pm
zoozzoom
LOL Bless you.
2:23 pm
rubyfoo
At least l can recall most of my past -- ready to have Mollyghostwrite for me (just kidding, Molly)
2:24 pm
rubyfoo
or not.....
2:25 pm
zoozzoom
Had to use morewords for the EU 7
2:26 pm
zoozzoom
And that is me done.
2:27 pm
zoozzoom
Hope you enjoy the rest of your evening, Ruby.
2:27 pm
zoozzoom
Happy babbling everyone!
2:27 pm
rubyfoo
and that is me, giving up! Good night zzoozz
2:27 pm
zoozzoom
Sweet dreams, Ruby.
3:23 pm
kimmtoats
does anyone have clues, besides Lickety?
3:25 pm
Biltong
ARB has posted a list in her profile
3:34 pm
kimmtoats
I can't find ARB.
3:36 pm
rururocks
molly has a list too
3:38 pm
davurs
Kimm: Check via "Who's Online" and click on their icon
3:49 pm
kimmtoats
thanks!!!
3:54 pm
maccafixx
di 6/30?
3:58 pm
MollyL
See, I told you it should just be posted in the chat
: D
4:20 pm
ch1212
Thanks for posting the list, MollyL
4:37 pm
bichon
po 6/24, pls
4:38 pm
wvteach
PO 6 - to think deeply
6:49 pm
kimmtoats
7 to go and i may have to give up
8:14 pm
penquis
cy 5 and di 6?....they are my last words...
8:18 pm
chrisk
Add a vowel to the end of the cy4 - think cyr*** de bergerac
8:20 pm
licketySplitAUS
Clues are up
8:22 pm
chrisk
Thanks Lickety!
8:23 pm
penquis
di 6 anyone?
8:25 pm
chrisk
can't find a definition for the di 6 - uses the first three letters of the di5 - ends in secr***
8:28 pm
penquis
ty....new one for me....i am done...
8:29 pm
chrisk
congrats. So am I.
8:29 pm
penquis
cool...congrats!
8:56 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
hi all, diving in (crap, this pool is shallow)
9:32 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
found the 7, silly word
9:45 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
fw, night all !!
10:24 pm
mkg
i have fa 4 7 twice and what is third f word please for the first column F? ty
10:25 pm
mkg
nm got it. fa 5 22.
10:25 pm
Nef
I don't have it yet, mkg; but will look with you
10:27 pm
mkg
need second E word for the E second row, 5th column. ty
10:27 pm
mkg
oops just got that too. ei 5,12. add letter to the ei 4.5
10:29 pm
Nef
I just started less than 20 minutes ago; so I don't have that one either. The ei 4 I have is from the top row, 5th column
10:29 pm
mkg
wish lickety was around.
10:30 pm
Nef
He said clues were up as of 8:20 PM I saw
10:35 pm
cosdem
clues up for me
10:36 pm
Nef
(((cos))) How are you doing?
10:36 pm
cosdem
the waiting ugh
10:37 pm
cosdem
i dont know how to deal with the waiting
10:38 pm
Nef
waiting? (Sorry, I haven't been here the last couple of nights)
10:42 pm
cosdem
days left thats what were waiting for
10:43 pm
cosdem
could be tonight could be up to 14 days
10:44 pm
Nef
cos, instead of just waiting, this is the time that you should be talking to Ryan, tell him you love him, tell him that it's okay for him to go (give him permission to pass)
10:45 pm
cosdem
hes sleeping heavily on morphine... but we talked a few times today and hell no i aint letting him go
10:45 pm
cosdem
im sorry but no
10:46 pm
Nef
and review your lives together; any silly memories you have of the two of you. Even if he's heavily drugged, hearing is the last sense to go
10:46 pm
Nef
Is he suffering?
10:47 pm
Nef
This may sound bad; but the thing is, as long as you want him to stay and be with you, he will try to hang on to life; and that may increase the amount of suffering he's going through
10:49 pm
Nef
(& I just realized what I said about hearing; & once again I forgot; can Ryan hear?
10:51 pm
cosdem
yes he can but he is coherent.. he knows.
10:51 pm
cosdem
we have conversations
10:53 pm
Nef
ok. Just talk to him. Waiting is hard; but talking to him & reviewing your lives together will remind both of you about the good times (& bad); & it will help the time pass
10:56 pm
Nef
And it's okay to tell him how you feel; if your angry or sad, or whatever, that's okay to share within.
10:59 pm
cosdem
but how do I wait
11:00 pm
Nef
What do you want to wait for? Are they limiting your time at his bedside?
11:03 pm
cosdem
hes at his moms house
11:04 pm
Nef
OH! And how far is that from where you are?
11:04 pm
cosdem
not far. but i mean.. sitting there waiting for it to happen
11:10 pm
Nef
Don't just sit there & wait for him to die. If it's okay with his mom, feed him, wash his face, sponge out his mouth & keep it clean & moist, hold his hand; do those types of little things that mean something to you to comfort him. If you can read a book to him that you both like; or bring his dog over for a visit; things like that that would mean something to the 2 of you. Just sitting there *waiting* doesn't help either of you; but if there are things you can do for his comfort; that will help.
11:14 pm
Nef
And when you aren't there visiting; use your energy to do mindless, thoughtless tasks such as doing laundry, doing dishes, scrubbing floors, weeding the garden. Basically do the things around the house that always need to be done but don't require any thinking or concentration.
And eat the nutritious foods (not junk); and be sure and get your rest & sleep.
11:16 pm
Nef
Because when he does pass, you need to be able to get through *that* whole phase of the process, too
11:18 pm
Dorens
Sorry to butt in here, but Nef is completely right. I lost my dearest closest friend in July to cancer and at the end it is all about being there for the person and doing what needs to be done, showing your love, support and caring. Doing what he/she needs, not what is easiest for you.
11:21 pm
cosdem
hes only 34.
11:21 pm
cosdem
i dont know.
11:21 pm
harpjane
I see Lickety is up
11:22 pm
Nef
I've lost 5 very close family members (and am losing my baby brother to ALS very soon also) and it *hurts* so much; but it's important to make the other person feel loved & cared for.
And as a nurse at the bedside in ICU for 34 years; I've given this same advice to so many family members. It makes a difference if you think about your loved one or worry about yourself.
11:24 pm
Nef
cos, it's extremely hard on you; but you will feel better later.
11:24 pm
Nef
Thanks, Dorens.
11:27 pm
Nef
cos, he's packed a lot of living in his 34 years; both good & bad.
You need to remind him of your times together, okay?
11:44 pm
flosey
SOOO well said Nef, sure hope I have a friend like you nearby when I have to face it
11:54 pm
Nef
Thanks, flosey. I hope you do too; and I hope we all can be that lucky.
(I was updating my profile about my brother just now).