12:00 am
cosdem
Howdy folkies.
12:01 am
hurshy
hello from a fairly despondent hurshy
12:02 am
cosdem
I am sorry hursh.. I Hope you feel better soon
12:03 am
cosdem
ah thanks movieman :)
12:03 am
cosdem
re 8/9 combo right?
12:03 am
movieman
that's the one
12:03 am
cybernan
hello everyone
12:04 am
cosdem
thanks rain. that was my last T for that tile
12:04 am
Rainiqui
anytime
12:05 am
cosdem
thanks again movieman
12:13 am
vashongin
I assume the same ca 8 rain...good find
12:14 am
Rainiqui
you too !
12:20 am
licketySplitAUS
Clues are up
12:25 am
cybernan
good night
12:39 am
hurshy
there are two re8/9 combos.
12:44 am
SueMagee
Ni5 hurshy.
12:58 am
sprite
good morning all
1:00 am
Rainiqui
Morning Sprite
1:00 am
sprite
hi Rainiqui! How are you doing today?
1:02 am
Rainiqui
excellent ~ I was getting a horrid cluster headache earlier today but my medical marijuana oil stopped it in it's tracks, oh joy, oph bliss !
1:02 am
sprite
oh that is so good! Am happy for you!
1:04 am
Rainiqui
it's worn off now so my tremors are horrendous but they won't kill me so it's all good
1:04 am
Rainiqui
How about you ?
1:05 am
sprite
sorry about the tremors, but not having the headaches must be such a relief :)
I am good, slept through the night for once and feel on top of my game this morning.
1:06 am
Rainiqui
Yes, restorative sleep is a blessing for sure
1:07 am
sprite
isn't it? It makes such a difference.
Lol, reminds me of a little joke I read once: Dear sleep, I am so sorry I didn't appreciate you enough when I was younger and pushed you away. I know better now. Please come back to me.
1:08 am
Rainiqui
Oh geez, that's a good one !!!
1:28 am
sprite
I am in the grid today, in alt spelling :)
1:29 am
Rainiqui
I'm finding too many french words
1:29 am
sprite
and none of them valid today, alas
1:35 am
sprite
ah found one french word that is valid
1:35 am
Rainiqui
moi aussi
1:35 am
sprite
well done you :)
1:36 am
sprite
and a german one too now
1:36 am
Rainiqui
and you !
1:36 am
sprite
we rock :)
1:37 am
Rainiqui
we sure do
1:37 am
sprite
fireflies. Anything I can help you with before I go?
1:39 am
Rainiqui
I only have 99 words - it takes me FOREVER to type because my fingers are all over the place and I make 42,000 typos per evening
1:40 am
Rainiqui
how about a word starting with n?
1:40 am
sprite
bless you for having the courage to play anyway :) *hugs*
*leaves hug in chog for rose to find*
And to you all, a blessed day and a peaceful night.
1:40 am
Rainiqui
have a great day Sprite
1:40 am
sprite
the time usually reserved for sleep
1:41 am
Rainiqui
oh fer crying out loud, how could I NOT see that ????????
1:41 am
Rainiqui
thanks a bunch
1:41 am
sprite
*grins* It is called babble blindness. Strikes us all from time to time. Have fun, Rainiqui, and see you again soon.
3:22 am
gapeach
Good morning. May I please have a clue for re5-14? Thanks
3:23 am
lynxxx
put up sails or scaffold again
3:25 am
gapeach
Thanks, looking.....
3:25 am
lynxxx
or what you wear on your finger - less the N - again
3:27 am
gapeach
Have it now....thanks so much.
3:31 am
worzel
phantom herpes
3:40 am
gapeach
May I please have a clue for re8-55? Thanks
3:43 am
gapeach
just the first 3 letters would help. Thanks
3:44 am
grannyrose
res, peach
3:45 am
grannyrose
re + leap out at . then plural for re9
3:46 am
gapeach
Oh, thanks, rose. Hey, last night I had typed a note to you and when I hit enter I looked at the chat and I had 2 red boxes and had to turn everything off and unplug and re start the darn thing again and you had already left....but I tried...
3:48 am
grannyrose
thanx peach. i have been pretty down in the mouth lately. feeling conspired against etc. just about due for next infusion. i can usually ride it out but this time coupled with the jetlag....
3:48 am
grannyrose
and i think the question i asked was what breed of dog do you have, and what is it's name?
3:53 am
gapeach
I am so sorry to hear this. Just give whatever it is, time. I know it is difficult with what all you have going on.....but try to rest as much as you can and know that, above all, you will be alright. Oh, I was telling you about the dog....she is a rescue that I have had for about 10 years.....had 2 but lost one in March....he was diabetis and blind, but I loved him so much. I still cry.
3:54 am
grannyrose
i know how you feel. the unconditional love which they give to us is so precious.
3:54 am
gapeach
For sure.
3:56 am
gapeach
Hon, I need to try to sleep for a while. I was hoping to finish this one but I will come back later and try some more. I will say an extra prayer for you. Blessings
3:57 am
grannyrose
sweet dreams peach. xoxo and thanx for your prayers.
5:09 am
Alleyn58
Morning all. I have a res8/50 is there another one meaning to leap out??
5:13 am
MollyL
Re8/50 is new growth on a plant. re8/55 means to leap out
5:15 am
Alleyn58
So does the word re8/55 without the re stand on its own. Just can't fathom
5:16 am
MollyL
The words without the re are a season of the year and a new growth on a plant. Like a bean ______
5:17 am
Alleyn58
Phew! Thank you SO muxh
5:17 am
MollyL
Actually, I apologize. Using the the "not in" word gave too much of a clue.
5:28 am
rubyfoo
Hello everybody. l'm determined to make this a good day
6:17 am
A*n*i*t*a
in7/32 any clues please
6:18 am
A*n*i*t*a
got it nm
6:19 am
MollyL
Hi Ruby, good for you. There is no getting in the way of a determined woman. : D
7:00 am
MollyL
Name that proper noun...kid's favorite spook
7:01 am
MollyL
Ding! Ding! Ding! A trip to the haunted house for Bea.
7:01 am
cherlyq
oooh got a nine and did not realize it
7:05 am
bichon
er 6/33, pls
7:11 am
BzznBea
Ends with the 6 pt tile, bichon
7:13 am
BzznBea
a substitute or artificial
7:17 am
MollyL
Now there is a word that doesn't get used much these days.
9:02 am
MLFAN17
2nd column N?
9:03 am
MLFAN17
never mind
9:03 am
rururocks
to snack in yiddish
9:05 am
MLFAN17
corner O?
9:06 am
MLFAN17
hi ruru ty
9:06 am
rururocks
good morning
9:09 am
rururocks
name the friendly spirit in the grid
9:12 am
MLFAN17
ruru both words are in the grid
9:12 am
rururocks
the beginning of concerning + godzilla's buddy
9:12 am
MLFAN17
Godzilla has a buddy?
9:13 am
rururocks
well in monster movies genre.. yeah sorta
9:14 am
MLFAN17
I got it ty
9:15 am
bichon
he 7/40, pls
9:16 am
rururocks
it's too fishy to clue bichon
9:16 am
MLFAN17
lol good one ruru
9:20 am
MollyL
Too fishy indeed. That is some stinky stuff.
9:20 am
rururocks
finally closed out the p.. it was hard for me for some reason
9:21 am
MLFAN17
ruru I still have 12 of them to find
9:22 am
rururocks
they are all easy words.. just hard to see
9:24 am
MLFAN17
I gtg will be back....
9:27 am
MollyL
That is the thing with this grid, the way the words are set up
9:36 am
MollyL
wo6...man, Enable really reaches for the obscure ones, doesn't it?
9:39 am
gramma
Hi all! I just finished. Does anyone want a clue or two before I run off?
9:40 am
gramma
wo is to annoy
9:44 am
gramma
See you all tomorrow.
9:45 am
car.eeyore
hello everyone
9:46 am
MollyL
I guess that wo6 word is more well known than I thought it was
9:50 am
Judi
Hiyas, kids!
9:53 am
MLFAN17
well this word may do just that
9:54 am
cherlyq
can I get a clue for the pe6
9:56 am
MollyL
Like Eva, woman of Che, but with a double consonant
9:58 am
MLFAN17
got the pe 6 ty
10:02 am
MollyL
It is actually a common misconception that those two were together, but I figured it would steer the clue.
10:11 am
cybernan
good morning everyone :)
10:13 am
zoozzoom
Hello, Nan.
10:17 am
cosdem
hi people.. today is the last day with my students. thank god. the end is here.
10:18 am
zoozzoom
Hello, Cosdem. Enjoy your Summer break.
10:21 am
cosdem
hi zoom.. thanks..its been one hell of a year that i hope goes right back to the cesspool below hell that it belongs to
10:24 am
zoozzoom
I'll drink to that!
10:28 am
bichon
re 7/32, pls
10:30 am
zoozzoom
reissue of a book say.
10:31 am
zoozzoom
Welcome.
10:34 am
zoozzoom
Not seen the RO 6/24 in the grid before.
10:43 am
zoozzoom
Well that is me done. Happy babbling everyone!
10:45 am
cybernan
not seeing an ro 6/24
10:47 am
poodletoes
first word comes to mind is fat, nan
10:48 am
cybernan
just found it - ty poddle
10:49 am
cybernan
*poodle
10:49 am
bichon
st 6/24, pls
10:50 am
poodletoes
I answer to most anything!
10:50 am
Deeha
noise with another letter
10:50 am
cybernan
put an a in front bich and it means to amaze
10:52 am
bichon
ty Deeha, nan
10:54 am
MollyL
I kind of like Poddle
10:55 am
MollyL
Last day for Cos. Here's hoping you win big in Vegas.
10:55 am
mkg
any clues for the 9s or 7s? dont have any of them. ty.
10:55 am
mkg
oops just got a 7. sorry.
10:56 am
bichon
re 9/66 a seed will ******
10:56 am
bonkler
re 9 put new bouncy coils under your car
10:58 am
mkg
looking. ty.
10:59 am
mkg
also need o words for top corner o please. ty.
10:59 am
MLFAN17
re clue re 7/32 I don't understand the book clue?
11:00 am
cybernan
the 2nd edition is a re 7/32
11:00 am
MLFAN17
ty cyber
11:01 am
mkg
got them. ty
11:03 am
cybernan
in 7 please?
11:03 am
mkg
looking for oc 5. sorry dont have yet nan.
11:03 am
mkg
oops mlfan i meant.
11:03 am
dan2bit
in + ocean boundary, nan
11:04 am
cybernan
duh - ty dan
11:06 am
dan2bit
oc5 babblet, ends with two vowels
11:07 am
MLFAN17
finally got it ty dan
11:08 am
mkg
ty got it dan. ty
11:08 am
mkg
half way now. whew
11:09 am
MLFAN17
sh 6/27?
11:10 am
dan2bit
sh 6/27 mountain guide
11:10 am
mkg
mountain guide is sh 6 24. not the 27.
11:11 am
dan2bit
oh sorry
11:11 am
MollyL
The 27 is funeral veil
11:11 am
car.eeyore
Turin garment
11:11 am
MLFAN17
ijust got that she 6/2 ty
11:12 am
MLFAN17
sh 6/24 I found
11:12 am
dan2bit
thanks Molly & car
11:13 am
MLFAN17
ty for that too
11:14 am
MollyL
I highly recommend slow cooker roasted vegetables. It's a great way to fix them without heating up the kitchen and it makes great leftovers.
11:15 am
bichon
es 6/21, pls
11:15 am
aslindy
how do you roast them in the slow cooker?
11:15 am
MollyL
And use the recipe that calls for honey because it makes all the difference
11:16 am
cybernan
es 6 de corps
11:16 am
cybernan
er 6/33 please?
11:17 am
dan2bit
ends with the high point tile
11:19 am
cybernan
6 d's left - need a break
11:20 am
MollyL
You cut them up, toss them in olive oil, honey and the herbs & seasonings of your choice and slow cook them until tender.
11:22 am
MollyL
You can also toss them in olive oil and dry ranch dressing mix
11:27 am
bichon
sp 7/44, pls
11:28 am
cybernan
alt. sp. for our dutch player
11:30 am
cybernan
first do 5 please?
11:31 am
cybernan
or sp + direction
11:31 am
aslindy
fried cake
11:31 am
cherlyq
police get a lot of guff for eating these
11:31 am
cybernan
ty cherl -- never think of them being spelled that way
11:33 am
cybernan
*!*~*!* Thanks for the help :)
11:33 am
bichon
nan, don't get it at all
11:34 am
cybernan
our player from amsterdam? or the sp + a direction
11:34 am
bichon
doh, ty, difficult word
11:34 am
cybernan
* actually I think she was from outside Amsterdam and she has just moved into a motorhome.
11:36 am
MLFAN17
re clue es 6 pls?
11:37 am
MollyL
If you do a Google search on Nan's clue you will get the word
11:37 am
MollyL
There is only one word that comes before de corps
11:39 am
MLFAN17
sp direction?
11:41 am
cybernan
sorry - phone call - hagd everyone :)
11:41 am
MLFAN17
working on a few words molly
11:42 am
cybernan
the clue was sp + a direction or an alt. sp. for our babbler from outside Amsterdam.
11:44 am
MLFAN17
got sp 6/24 ending in t
11:46 am
dan2bit
he6 anybody?
11:46 am
bichon
sp 6/27, first one, pls
11:47 am
bichon
he 6 is a person from the 50's who cheers people on
11:47 am
MollyL
he6 beatnick
11:47 am
MollyL
Or beatnik
11:48 am
MollyL
Ah, it really means 40's jazz player
11:49 am
MollyL
The first sp6/27 is not Summer, Winter or Fall
11:49 am
dan2bit
thank you bichon and Molly that's firewords
11:52 am
bichon
Molly, that's the second
11:57 am
MollyL
The first is a funeral wrap
11:58 am
Vicuna
sp6/27 - pl of an offshoot
11:59 am
MollyL
Okay the first SP 6/27 is like a sp5 of parsley, plural
12:00 pm
MollyL
Or some people decorate with sp6 of holly at Christmas
12:01 pm
bichon
ty Vicuna, Molly
12:03 pm
MollyL
I think the whole sp6/27 and sp6/24 being similar has made things confusing her in Clue Land
12:29 pm
bichon
last word, sp 5/16, pls
12:30 pm
cherlyq
at christmas you kiss under a sp 5 16 of mistle toe
12:30 pm
bichon
ty cherl, fw
12:30 pm
cherlyq
clue please for st6:24
12:31 pm
cherlyq
got it nm
12:32 pm
cherlyq
congrats
12:52 pm
marksdolly
clue for the Ta 8/55 please?
12:52 pm
marksdolly
nm got it
12:57 pm
MollyL
Again, there seems to be confusion regarding sp6/24 and sp6/27. Two very similar words.
1:09 pm
marksdolly
clues for the Ca 8/60?
1:09 pm
marksdolly
got it nm!! fireworks!!!
1:42 pm
JaxH66
plural of ho4/5
1:49 pm
cherlyq
re words uggh
1:49 pm
wvteach
help with SP 8 - my last 8
1:50 pm
cherlyq
old word for tree spirits I think
1:50 pm
cherlyq
or sp plus not wrong but ri5
1:52 pm
periwinkle
ty cherly
1:52 pm
periwinkle
help with ta8or ca8 pls
1:53 pm
periwinkle
found ta8
1:53 pm
periwinkle
and the ca8
1:54 pm
wvteach
thnx cheryl
2:18 pm
cherlyq
fireworks
2:18 pm
cherlyq
interesting puzzle today
2:19 pm
cherlyq
anyone need clues before I sign off?
4:31 pm
hokie carla
ok, I am actually angry at myself for not getting the gh
4:39 pm
MollyL
Oh my, take a deep breath, it's just a word game.
: D
4:47 pm
hokie carla
I mean I was trying all kinds of 5 letter word combos and couldn't see the one actual real word.
5:23 pm
ChampFit
Late to the party here, but just because it's an easy word doesn't mean it's easy to SEE. :)
5:27 pm
MollyL
Yes Champ, that is the nasty twist of playing this game.
5:42 pm
MollyL
I imagine that puppy is a big dog now.
6:04 pm
ChampFit
She's a whopping 35 lbs. Still has the same puppy face though!
6:19 pm
Soodle
Hey Champ :-). Libby is gonna be one BIG dog.
6:40 pm
ChampFit
shush your mouth, Soodle!!! :) I keep pretending she's done growing.
6:45 pm
ChampFit
FYI...she ate my strapless bra the other day. :/
6:46 pm
Soodle
A dog with taste, as well as being a monster. 🤣🤣🤣
6:47 pm
ChampFit
Well, I hated it anyway. It as uncomfortable. :)
6:55 pm
Soodle
BRA-vo Libby. (See what I did there?) 🤣🤣
6:56 pm
ChampFit
cute, Granny!
6:57 pm
Soodle
Drop the comma. I prefer Cute Granny
7:00 pm
MollyL
I used to work with a woman whose dog chewed up all her expensive lingerie. She quit buying expensive lingerie.
7:00 pm
ChampFit
Well ok then! Are they still visiting?
7:08 pm
Soodle
They are. And staying in my house. The whole place is upscuttled with sterilisers, Moses baskets, formula etc. The cat & dog have been banished to the garden. It's all a bit surreal.
7:11 pm
periwinkle
help with in7 pls
7:13 pm
periwinkle
hi all
7:14 pm
MollyL
in + sea edge
7:15 pm
ChampFit
That's sounds like the fun kind of chaos, Soodle! Going to walk the beast...BBL.
7:16 pm
periwinkle
ty Molly
7:18 pm
periwinkle
11 re words left
7:27 pm
periwinkle
help with the re8 or either of the re9's pls
7:30 pm
MollyL
re9 words...one ends in not Summer, Winter or Fall...the other ends in the curly bean things that people put on healthy sandwiches or salads. Beans that have just begun to grow.
7:30 pm
MollyL
Both of those are plurals.
7:31 pm
periwinkle
tyvm Molly
7:32 pm
periwinkle
5 re words left
7:35 pm
MollyL
Get your umbrella out Peri. It's going to be a rain fest tomorrow.
7:36 pm
periwinkle
I know. We have had a lot of rain here a lot of waterbugs, ugh
7:37 pm
periwinkle
should have read lot of rain here and hence a lot of water bugs,ugh. roach motels do work
7:38 pm
periwinkle
and landlord will be reinstalling the dehumidifier in the basement which should help a lot
7:38 pm
periwinkle
am stuck on my last 2 re words
7:38 pm
periwinkle
the re5/14 and the re6 rght after it
7:47 pm
MollyL
Once again, Peri solves her own dilemma.
The Peri Principle.
8:13 pm
rururocks
She is so tactile
8:13 pm
rururocks
Peritactile if you will
9:07 pm
gapeach
Good evening. May I please have a clue for he6-27? Thanks
10:04 pm
Nef
Goodevening. My grandson has been helping me off & on today inbetween his & my chores & etc. we have 132 words down so far; but now he’s got to go to bed.
10:05 pm
Nef
(I don’t think I’ve ever had this many words in a game by 10 PM before!)
10:27 pm
amelu0218
Nef, lol! I understand! unfortunately, when my guys (gs 12 & 8, s and husb) are here when I'm playing I'm usually 2/3 through before they start looking for words, lol. I hear a lot of "ugh"s when I tell them I already have that one...
10:28 pm
amelu0218
every once in a while they'll happen upon one I thought I'd already done (but evidently had a type and didn't notice)… so I still try all of their suggestions.
10:29 pm
amelu0218
typo, sorry
10:29 pm
Nef
He’s 10 years old & is bored silly in this first week of summer vacation. If his computer was fixed, I’m sure he wouldn’t be interested in helping me
10:31 pm
amelu0218
I understand. Mine got out of school the Friday before Memorial Day, talk about stir crazy... they're going to the Y summer camp but... *rolls eyes*
10:32 pm
Nef
He’s signed up for the next 2 weeks of summer camp (from 7A until 5P); then will have his TaeKwonDo classes each evening until 8 or 8:30; so I was enjoying this rare time working on something fun!
10:33 pm
amelu0218
We have to limit computer/online time or they'd be on it 24/7... go out and ride your bike or I'll find something else for you to be productive with, lol.
10:34 pm
amelu0218
No doubt! Mine are just here in the afternoon/evenings whilst dad & mom are working.
10:35 pm
amelu0218
Camp hours are 0600-1800 and they take them for different activities every week...
10:35 pm
amelu0218
Library and such...
10:36 pm
amelu0218
they get dropped off and picked up by whoever is available
10:37 pm
Nef
His Dad works from home as a QASpecialist with 2 small computercompanies & sees nothing wrong with a kid being on a computer for 6 hours straigth! *I’m* the one who worries about it, however.
10:40 pm
Nef
I wish I could sign him up for more /different camps; but they arepretty expensive (especially the ones I know he’d like).
10:41 pm
amelu0218
*thumbs up!* I don't know your community but we have 9 acres in the country on a dead end road. "Go outside and find something to do or you're gonna wish you had!", lol. We're very fortunate.
10:43 pm
Nef
We’re in a suburb of St. Paul, MN; lakes all around our area of town. His school buddies seem to be out of town this week, so that’s why he’s hanging out at home.
10:43 pm
amelu0218
Our county schools built a robotics learning lab 2 years ago. They offer week long "training/playing with electronics" during the summer but the Y would still have to be paid to keep their spots. Unfortunate but once the 12 yr old gets into high school, he should be able to sign up for classes..
10:53 pm
Nef
This kid has been chosen by teachers to attend a 3 week summer academy each of these 4 years he’s been in school. Unfortunately this year his dad didn’t tell me he couldn’t afford the special summer academy, so he couldn’t go this year. 😟 He’s done intensive 3 week courses in videography; inventions (he “invented†a “come along cane so his grampa -my hubby- wouldn’t loose it again; and also acourse about making robotic ants that they could battle each other with . And I can’t remember the other course for his first year. This is for 1100 students, 1st -8th grades; from 12 different school districts.
10:57 pm
Nef
(Yes, I’m very proud of this kid, I keep hearing from others that he’s so nice, good-looking, smart, and very talented at TaeKwonDo too. Not that I’m bragging, or anything. 😉
11:00 pm
amelu0218
Sweet! You and fam are truly blessed! Wish dad had mentioned as I'm sure you could have at least tried to juggle funds (I know I would/do, lol)
11:05 pm
Nef
Yeah, I definitely would have found the money for summer academy for him. He’s a hard-working kid when he’s interested & focused on something. He’s going for his second degree black belt this weekend too.
11:09 pm
Nef
My kids both tell me he’s the only “human†grandchild we’ll have; so we adore him. (We also have grand puppies & grand kitties too.
11:12 pm
amelu0218
Sweet! My y/o took MMA classes when he was younger but they couldn't afford it later... then he went for Aikido for a season but they had to close during the summer months because they were in a steel building with no a/c... think he went back the following "opening" period but timeframe of classes did not fall in line with anyone able to take him... he was fierce, tho. One of the smallest in the classes for his age... I need to look into that again (maybe)...
11:16 pm
Nef
Is he still interested in it? If so, & you can afford it; by all means do it! I think our grandsons ability and grades are due to being taught to focus.
11:17 pm
amelu0218
I'm pretty sure both of our kids are done... Our girl child may foster/adopt but that's up for grabs... I mean the g/b child are 37/35 respectively this year and both have 2 kids who are 9, 13 16 & 20 this year (and a great on the way, lol).
11:19 pm
amelu0218
Focus Is HUGE! They spend so much time wanting to watch Minecraft videos (or whatever) on YouTube it's mind boggling. (As I sit and type while having played Babble for hours on end, lol)
11:22 pm
Nef
Ours are b/g and they’re 40 & 36; respectively. Our son is raising his son alone (his ex has serious mental health issues, but she does call & talk to their son nearly every night); while our dtr. doesn’t want to pass on “bad genes†to anyone.
11:23 pm
cosdem
Crazy stressful and unfun shift today at work. Figures.
Said bye to the kids though. Some of them dont understand they wont be coming back until August. Sad to see.
Now gotta work tomorrow 9am-3pm then Fri 8am-10am then I am done.
8 work hours left til vacation.
11:24 pm
cosdem
had to suspend a kid tonight.. on the last day .. ugh
11:24 pm
amelu0218
Gotcha. Son has custody of 1st born and is divorced from mom of 2nd but has every other week. Good luck planning anything. Daughter has custody of 15 yr old (as the 19 yr old is no longer under her umbrella aside from insurance...
11:25 pm
amelu0218
Oh, cos! that sux! and I'm sorry a bad day and I know they'll miss you and hope they don't get into hot water in the duration!
11:26 pm
Nef
Hi cos. How sad that the kid got suspended the last day of school. Must have been a big stupid mistake on his part, huh?
11:27 pm
cosdem
yup.. almost had to call the cops
11:28 pm
Nef
Oh, Man! That’s bad! How old?
11:29 pm
cosdem
but this is a repeated infraction... physical violence towards peers and staff.. we cannot tolerate anymore
11:30 pm
Nef
Is that 8th grade? Will he graduate?
11:31 pm
cosdem
hes in 6th
11:31 pm
cosdem
delayed start
11:31 pm
cosdem
my school does not have graduation for middle schools. we are 5-21 year old school...
11:33 pm
Nef
So will this kid be able to return next year or is he out for good?
11:34 pm
cosdem
oh he'll be back. our school does not expel students. .we are desperate to keep our number of students stable or we will get cuts in funds
11:34 pm
cosdem
its a state school
11:35 pm
Nef
Sounds like he needs psych help, though
11:36 pm
cosdem
yeah hes in atough home life too. saw his uncle point a gun at his grandpa
11:37 pm
cosdem
mom is dying etc etc .. in foster care now... but still doesnt excuse his extreme violent behavior
11:37 pm
Nef
Good grief!!
11:38 pm
cosdem
not to mention he looks slightly deformed too so that doesnt help
11:39 pm
Nef
<shaking my head & crying for that kid & your staff.>
11:41 pm
amelu0218
All you can do is treat him kindly, encourage behavior and pray. Sad, sad, sad... but unless you can foster him yourself, you can't do much more than that.
11:41 pm
cosdem
its been a tough year. they put me in charge of the school's most hopeless boys...theyre 12-13 and read at kindergarten level.. they dont get why theyre at school. they re in 6-8 grade and behave like first grade playing with cars etc.. im glad the year is over. its been really tough.. it makes me so mad they know my home life is awful.. they did not need to do this to me at work.. i almost quit 3x and i am looking for a new job actually.. cause this is they dont pay me enough for this
11:44 pm
cosdem
plus we had 6 dorm staff quit on us this year so now after six years of working there i am the most senior male on the student life team
11:44 pm
Nef
Cos, do you think they gave you this group to “help†keep you occupied so you could get through your own grief? (I’m not saying that it’s right, I just know some people veiw life backwards like that.
11:45 pm
cosdem
and the superindenent and the director of student life are both leaving this year so we will have all new bosses in aug.. no fun..
11:45 pm
Nef
Yikes! Why did so many quit?
11:45 pm
cosdem
oh no cause i was assigned to a good dorm until this one guy quit and they had to transfer me cause no one else was available
11:45 pm
cosdem
bosses/low morale/ favortism/ micromanagement etc
11:46 pm
cosdem
plus the hours arent great.. 3-1 4 days a week or so.. plus on snow days we are required to come in or lose our jobs..
11:46 pm
cosdem
we're never home during peak time.. like 5pm - 10pm.. were never home were at work... everyone dont see their kids/families/dogs
11:47 pm
Nef
Are there other places you’d like to work?
11:47 pm
cosdem
teachers see students maybe 1-2 hours a day.. we're with them 8-12 hours a day..4-5 days a week..
11:47 pm
cosdem
oh ill end up staying at my job lol.. full benefits. retirement plan. decent pay...
11:48 pm
Nef
How do the students learn then?
11:48 pm
cosdem
oh were with the kids after school.. 3pm-1am.. teachers have them in the day time.. change teachers for subjects etc
11:49 pm
Nef
Maybe the new bosses will make it all better
11:49 pm
cosdem
we teach them DLS.. so we're kinda teachers lol
11:50 pm
cosdem
oh the new Supt. is very controversial.. there are planned protests.. *sigh*
11:50 pm
Nef
Yeah, & I can understand that isn’t aneasy job.
11:50 pm
cosdem
and the teachers at the school are planning a strike as well...demanding the principal resign.. its all a mess.. a big huge cluster frick
11:51 pm
cosdem
I wonder when I was a student my school was like that? we dont know what was in our teachers heads and in the staff lounge lol
11:52 pm
cosdem
sometimes I think.. god i cant stand this kid.. and then I wonder did any of m y teachers ever think that lol ugh
11:52 pm
cosdem
(i never show it though. i act like i like every kid.. im a pro)
11:53 pm
Nef
Well, if teachers are like parents; they probably did! 🙂
11:54 pm
cosdem
like tis one kid tonight i asked him to wash a specific spot on his dresser in the bedroom... i pointed to it... he kept missing it.. over and over.. for 20 minutes.. i was so close to losing it...
11:55 pm
cosdem
i had to take his hand.. and take it to the spot, and moved his hand to wipe it...and then i said "do you see it now? can u do it now?" with a smile.. then i walked outside to smoke a cig
11:56 pm
Nef
That’s when you pray for patience so you both live tosee a better day.
11:56 pm
cosdem
anyway vent done lol :) thanks for listening
11:56 pm
amelu0218
Seems like he just needed your attention... sometimes when there are more kids there are those who are more problematic (because it means you spend more time with them)...
11:56 pm
cosdem
oh and i have this kid who question severy single thing
11:56 pm
cosdem
"why is that table brown?" "why is the lights on?" "what do I do when I go to bed?"
11:57 pm
cosdem
"why are we going to the cafe?" "to eat dinner" "Oh why?" "because" "oh what time will we finish eating?" "I dont know" "why?" "i just dont" "oh why is the sky blue?" .. on and on and on and on
11:58 pm
cosdem
thats true amelu.. it is possible
11:58 pm
Nef
Par for the course, cos. Just should majke you glad that it’s not your flesh & blood!
11:58 pm
cosdem
sometimes i want to sscream SHUT UP and im not the only one who says that lol
11:59 pm
Nef
I used to tell my kids they were wering my ers out